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CarolinaConceicao
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Relationship Stress / by CarolinaConceicao
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August 4th, 2024
...See more Hello, I recently met a guy that I already can tell that I like very much. We speak nearly everyday but only meet when I have to go to his city on work. My company will cease operations next year where I live and requests me to move to a new city until May 2026. I chose one city where I have a friend that could support me, to move next year in May. But meanwhile, I met this guy that I like very much and August will be the last month I will travel to his city on work; so I start thinking if I should move to the closest city that my company has available, even before next year, instead the city I chose where I have a friend. when I speak about it, he says it’s my decision… I understand he is being polite and doesn’t want to have a weight on my choice, but in the end I have to move anyway and I would rather move earlier to the nearest city my company has available, but of course, I would like to have his support and help if I decide to do so, because I would do it to be close to him and I believe he would like it as well. At the same time, I don’t want to rush and ask him this all the time, but if I’m not fast, I will lose this chance! Shouldn’t you move for the people you love? And not think about the option that it could go wrong? I have to move anyway! He has my word… I feel quite lost here and I don’t know what to do. I hope I didn’t write too much and that I was clear :) Thank you 🙏
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