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Chairpillow
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ABDL: Afraid of reaction
Relationship Stress / by Chairpillow
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 May 4th, 2017
...See more I recently got off of the phone with the girl who I love dearly, and we were playing a game where we asked each other sexual questions. One of them was "what is your most odd fetish?" And I wanted to try and tell her so I tried dropping hints and she eventually asked me in a disgusted voice if I was into ABDL. I was so afraid of the reaction if I said yes because of fear and the stigma around this fetish so I just ended up saying "not really." I feel like I made the wrong choice by saying not really because it's not really a fetish, it's a part of who I am as a person deep down. The stigma around it along with the way she mentioned it made me feel terrible. I think that she thinks ABDL has to do with children or something, and it has nothing to do with children at all. I need help, because telling her would make me feel like I got something off of my chest, but I don't know how she would react with how she might think of the fetish. Are there any ways that I can tell her while telling her the truth about the fetish? Idk what to do, it's really eating at me and the feeling isn't letting me sleep.
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