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ChaoticMind220
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Feeling guilty a year later
Relationship Stress / by ChaoticMind220
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 November 10th, 2018
...See more My boyfriend and I have been together almost 3 years now. Last year around this time, we hit a bump in the road. We were constantly fighting. One night at dinner he told me he no longer had a desire to have sex with me. That comment broke me. After that, I ended up cheating on him. 2 weeks later we broke up due to all of our issues. We took a 3 month break and got back in February. Since being back together, we have been better than ever. We are in couples therapy which has helped majorly. We rarely fight and instead work thru our issues. We have been talking about engagment and I have a feeling he may do it when we go away on vacation in January. My issue is, i am now feeling guilty for cheating a year ago. When he and i got back in Feb. I half admitted to him that I cheated. I told him tbe thought was there and that I met up with someone but didnt do anything even though we did. I dont think I can tell him the truth. Am I a horrible person for saying yes to a propsoal from a man I cheated on? Do I tell hin and ruin all of the progrss we have made? I an truly at a loss. I cant be without him but I do feel guilty as I should.
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