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Chinay99
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How do I survive a breakup with no clear ending.
Relationship Stress / by Chinay99
Last post
 July 3rd
...See more Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 3 years.LDR. We always fought. Whenever he hurts my feelings. Normally, I would have told about it. But he always gets so defensive. Even saying sorry, he would still find a way to explain so this is why I didn't feel like the apology was sincere. So, I would then shut him off. Saying, i don't want to talk for a while cause I feel invalidated. This goes on and on. Until I was so tired of not being heard, I decided to break up. But he begged that he would fix everything. This still goes on and on. Until he wasn't expressive anymore and I don't feel as loved as before and again I communicated this to him, said that he would fix it. I believed him that he would. It was a cycle. Everytime I was tired of waiting for the fix, I would ask to break up. He would beg and he promised that he would. I would always tell him that I am sorry that I don't mean anything I said. Until he agreed to the break up. I was taken aback and explained that I didn't mean to and that I just want it to be how we used to be. And then he burst amd blamed me for everything. That he was unable to express himself because of my sudden outbursts. That he wanted space and some time to think. That we should probably walk our own paths for now. But he clearly explained that he wasn't breaking up. I remember before that when he needed assurance I gave everything I could and lose friends and gave him all of my attention just to keep him assured and now that I needed this he pulled away. It's almost two weeks since we last talked. It was so hard for me because I was so used to us calling each other everyday. We just didn't talked I don't know what to do, should I wait? Am i single now? Am I the only one in the wrong here? I am so depressed. I just don't know what to do. I want him back but I don't think he wants me back because he is not talking to me.
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