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Chris13337
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Idk what to do
Relationship Stress / by Chris13337
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 October 11th, 2022
...See more So I’m in a complicated relationship and it’s been pretty rough. I don’t really know what to do at this point. I know in this relationship I’m a problem, He’s a very talkative person and outgoing and I’m pretty much an introvert and he doesn’t like that I’m quite and that I don’t really try to participate with his friends cause I don’t know them like he does so it’s kinda hard cause of how I am with being an introvert lol. I also moved out of state to be with him because a month after we were official he told he plans to move back to his home state so i decided to just go with him cause I didn’t really have much going for home, fast forward 7 months later he finished college and we move and it’s been rough. My communication skills are not very good and I’m not good at showing my emotions because I don’t want them to get in the way of how the other person feels. For example he wants to go somewhere but I don’t really want to but he seems very excited to go so I end up going along even though I didn’t want to but I just love seeing them happy but I ruin it because I get in this mood and ruin because of the fact I don’t want to be there… So we’ve talked about my problems and I’ve been telling him, when we can afford it I really want to go see a therapist to help me with these very important problems to make our relationship healthy and I want to fix the introvert problems, you know, get better at communicating and expressing myself and not bottle up everything and to be more involved with his friends and join in on the conversation because I care about this man very much and I want to do everything I can and improve myself for him. And then we had a fight and agreed to go on a break but still act like a couple and that he would help me see a therapist and once we could afford but a few days ago I messed up and now he wants to end things but idk what to do. I want to better myself and see a therapist to help with my problems and he’s willing to give me the time and help but now idk if he is anymore. I just don’t know what to do… I feel like we moved in to quickly also but idk. I’m just confused and lost and trying to figure things out.
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