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Chrisperez12
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I feel lost
Relationship Stress / by Chrisperez12
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September 30th, 2020
...See more Hello my name is Chris Perez i am an 18 year old trans man and i am having trouble in finding myself. I find myself laying in bed wondering if ill ever become something of myself. I have no talent and struggle in school already. I want to set goals for myself but i dont know what my goals really are. Im confused everyone around me has plans and goals and im just here struggling to find my purpose in life. I have a girlfriend and she means the world to me and i feel like i'd be dragging her down with me if i dont figure it out now and i dont want to do that to her. I love her and i'd love to grow old with her but i feel like i'd be to much of a burden for her :( i am way more confident now but i still dont feel like ik my purpose in life and im struggling to even find that purpose. I dont know what to do and im so scared for my future :(
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Worried im making her hate me.
Relationship Stress / by Chrisperez12
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August 22nd, 2019
...See more Hello everyone my name is chris perez, i am in a relationship where i feel loved! But also where i feel like she does not care for me! But heres the thing. I have anger issues and i have a problem with starting arguments. So today me and my girl were at our local mall and we were doing fine , she told me she was going with her friends after we were done and i asked to tag along. She told me no but i asked her why when she has a seat available for me to tag along. She kept saying no until I actually really pissed her off. Heres the thing i felt like she didnt want me there like she was kind of embarrassed of me and i got upset and on the ride home i calmed down and i told her im sorry and i kept teling her im sorry but she wouldnt change her mood. When i asked her if we can talk about it through text she got upset and told me like i was acting like the victim which i dont blme her i was but i thought inwas in the right. She told me she could not handle me anymore and i think shes going to leave me. Shes at work rn and not answering her phone but in an hour she will be out and i have a lil surprise for her. I am hoping gor her to just forgive me . Do you guys think it was right for me to go out and buy her flowers and a simple teddy bear with a card or does it seem like it was a bad idea. I dont know i am over thinking if you guys can give me feed back that would be great thanks :(
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