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Coco641822
3,162 M Seeking Light
PathStep 16 Compassion hearts83 Forum posts3 Age GroupAdult Last activeAugust, 2024 Member sinceJanuary 27, 2019
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Broken
Relationship Stress / by Coco641822
Last post
 May 17th, 2019
...See more I am lost and torn apart. I cannot stop crying. I spent 3 years together with a guy and he decides to break up with me. A month later he reaches out to me trying to reconnect. We go on a date, things go great and I tell him I want to take things slow. He doesnt text me for 2 days after that. I message him and he tells me that its a bonus that we have a good connection but he is there for sex and thats all he sees me as. Not only am I disgusted but it makes me feel like theres nothing to like about me. Why is that all he wants from me when weve spent 3 years together? Im so confused and it kills me that he said that because I could name a million things I love about him.
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First breakup from a toxic relationship
Relationship Stress / by Coco641822
Last post
 April 16th, 2019
...See more I met this guy at 15. I had low self-esteem but he seemed to love me.so we started dating. After 7 months we had more arguments then I expected. We became on and off. He then started to say harsh words in our arguments. During that summer he cheated on me while I was on vacation. I was broken. He blamed it on me not participating in sexual favours. Once I came back he apologized to me and put constant effort into being with me again. Eventually i said yes. I forgave him and never thought about what he did. Skip a couple months and he broke up with me and made it known he didnt respect me, so I attempted to move on. He hears about this the day after he wanted to get back with me and it sends him to initiate romantic behaviour with a classmate of mind. We ended. During November of that same year, he gets thrown out of his house. I avoided contact with him but I did the little things to help him, like collected his clothes and gave it to his friend. In December he told me he missed me and hed never hurt me again. I avoided him until he showed up to my house. We connected all over again and next thing you know, my parents allowed him to live with us. Everything was amazing until he started insulting me again. Then that lead to him controlling who I talk to and accusing me of cheating. I allowed many forms of disrespect because I knew he was hurting. But it wasnt until last summer that he started to abuse me with more than his words.
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