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ConcernedWife2017
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PathStep 5 Compassion hearts328 Forum posts123 Forum upvotes152 Current upvotes152 Age GroupAdult Last activeJanuary, 2026 Member sinceNovember 27, 2017
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I’m so lost and don’t know how to feel any more…
Depression Support / by ConcernedWife2017
Last post
 January 27th
...See more Hi everyone. Today has been a really bad day and I’m trying to recover, but nothing is helping. I went through *** today. Husband and I got into an argument and he said some things that just set me off. They were hurtful. Seems to be a reoccurring thing with him whenever he gets “upset”. Does anyone else believe that things said while being upset have truth in how the person feels? I certainly do. I’m tired. I can’t do it anymore. It’s bad enough I have depression, but for him to add to it? Nah. I honestly do not understand how he treats me this way when he claims he loves me. I can’t even look at him right now. That’s how upset I am. I have it in my head that I might want to walk away from our marriage. I’m sick of feeling worthless, stupid, unloved, and not good enough. He asked me a question and I answered politely (even with being upset) and his response back was quite rude and very aggressive. It’s not just depression I’m dealing with either. One of my children just moved away. I’m so lost without her. She could always make me feel better just by going to sit with her and talking to her. Texting her doesn’t quite have the same outcome. My doctor wants me to make an appointment with a therapist to see if that will help with my depression and or mood. I could dump a million things on them, but not so sure it will help. I guess I don’t know until I try. I’ve been sitting here crying for hours now. I’m so lost and sad. I need the biggest hug right now and for someone to tell me it will be ok because it sure doesn’t feel like things will ever get there 😭 Thank you for reading (if you did), I don’t usually get a lot of responses when I post. Just thought I would try because I have no one right this second that I trust with any of this information right now. The few I do are asleep.
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Depression sucks. Not sure what to do…
Depression Support / by ConcernedWife2017
Last post
 July 7th, 2025
...See more Hello. Not sure who will read this, but I thank you in advance for all who do. I have had depression for a few months or so now, and it’s awful. It’s not at the worst point. I am thankful for that. I have however not been able to get out of it, and it really sucks. I am not wanting to do much of anything, and if I do, it’s hard to find joy in it. There is a certain issue in my life that is affecting my brain/mood and is not helping me at all. It’s my husband’s constant complaining. It’s almost an every day thing with him. He always brings up negative things and never looks on the bright side of anything. I have told him it is taking a toll on me, and he just doesn’t seem to get it. He even told me “You don’t have depression”. I don’t? Ok, thank you doctor. 🙄 Does anyone else deal with this at all? If so, what do you do or how do you deal with it? It’s like he pushes it when I ask him to stop doing it.
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Why am I not able to see people’s replies on one of my threads?
Depression Support / by ConcernedWife2017
Last post
 February 14th, 2024
...See more I posted a thread a few days ago or so, and people have replied to me. Problem is I can not see their replies. I am having issues with the app. I have uninstalled it and reinstalled it. That didn’t work. I sign out and sign back in. That didn’t work. I keep getting error messages saying I’m not signed in, but I actually am. I don’t know what the deal is and how to see my replies from people on my other threads.
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Feeling down and out
Depression Support / by ConcernedWife2017
Last post
 February 6th, 2024
...See more I am feeling really awful. Today was a very emotional day for me. It started off with me being down because I’m missing my dad. Still seems so unreal that he is gone. It’s been a few years now, but missing him will always be there. I got a little bit of a pick me earlier when a friend sent me a very sweet message. It made me tear up because it’s very unusual for that friend to send stuff like that. I’m also feeling a bit down because one of my children are going through a rough time as well. Their relationship just ended. It’s for the better, trust me, but still doesn’t mean that my child isn’t going to hurt. And that makes me hurt as well. Another issue that is bothering me today is that my husband is upset. He kind of feels like a friend of his is pushing him away and he didn’t even do anything wrong. He is really good person and will do anything for anyone. I guess by him offering his help, his whole demeanor was taken the wrong way. Kind of a bummer that someone would think my husband is up to no good when all he was doing was being a good friend. It sucks feeling this way, but I am a very emotional person and when my family is hurting, I hurt. I’ve been in tears on and off all day. Just having a bad day all together.
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How do I cope..
Depression Support / by ConcernedWife2017
Last post
 August 25th, 2023
...See more I have been dealing with a lot of different things for years. I honestly believe it is all starting to pile up and it’s hitting me like a ton of bricks. I am crying multiple times a day every single day. To better understand where I am coming from, here is what I’ve been hit with: -One of my parents passed away. -One of my children is in a relationship with someone who may be a danger to them -I have lost a lot of loved ones and friends in a very short period of time. They all passed away -I am worrying about my one child and their relationship. It’s scaring me. -I lost two of my pets due to sickness— I had a miscarriage and lost my baby This is only part of what I am dealing with. It’s all hitting me very hard. I just don’t know how to deal with all of it and what to do anymore. I’m lost and broken. That’s the best way to explain it. If you got this far, thank you for reading.
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Having a few issues. Can’t find the right listener..
General Support / by ConcernedWife2017
Last post
 July 20th, 2023
...See more Hi everyone. I am going through an extremely rough time right now. I have tried multiple times to reach a listener, but have not found the proper one. It’s been awhile, and I am having no luck. I understand not everyone will know how to react to certain situations, or have never dealt with these kinds of things. I’m the middle of a chat you leave without telling me, I don’t consider that to be a good thing. I have multiple issues going on, and it would just be nice to talk to someone who understands. Someone who is not going to judge me and someone who will listen, but at the same time hopefully give me some sound advice on what to do if I haven’t already tried it.
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Scared something bad will happen…
Anxiety Support / by ConcernedWife2017
Last post
 July 19th, 2023
...See more Hi everyone. I had to come in here to vent because I feel an anxiety attack coming on. Thank you if you take the time to read this. I really appreciate it. I will try to explain it the best I can without revealing specifics to be exact, because someone on here might realize who I am. So I am a mom- multiple kids (Not giving exact amount for reasons of someone figuring out who I am). My oldest child has a brand new boyfriend. They just started dating. There was something that happened yesterday. I can’t go into exactly what happened, but it literally freaked me out. So thinking about this, it has me completely shook up and I am 100% scared that my child is going to come up missing one day because of her bf. And it is giving me so much anxiety. And the reason I fear this is because of what happened. I want my child to see how bad this person is, but she doesn’t seem to see it. And I don’t know if she will in time or not because he feeds her lines of crap. I am honestly so freaked out and I don’t know what to do. Obviously the law can’t do anything until something happens, then of course it’s too late at that point. I am one of those people who can sense when something bad is going to happen. And I can sense when people are bad. And when I get these feelings, they 100% have came true. And that is what scares me even more. I can sense that he is a bad person, and he proved it to me by doing what he did yesterday to my daughter. I am completely freaking out 😭
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Don’t know what to feel anymore…
Relationship Stress / by ConcernedWife2017
Last post
 July 17th, 2023
...See more I have been with my husband for most of my life. We got together at a younger age. We have/had children. We have been together for a little while, and lately I just don’t know what to do anymore. Just when I thought things were better, I was wrong. I am constantly feeling worthless because of things he says to me. He has in the past cheated on me- multiple times. The cheating alone killed me. I have at times just wanted to leave, but I’m afraid to. I have it in my head that no one else will ever want me because I’m worthless and I’m not pretty enough. I don’t want to be alone for the rest of my life if I leave. I hate being alone. I feel so lost.
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