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DadFrustrated
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 January 2nd, 2018
...See more Hello... 40 something married man here. My issue is a little bit delicate and I'm not sure how to phrase it well. But here goes. My wife and I are incompatable in certain ways. We love each other deeply, but she takes medication for some medical issues that for the past 10 years have sunken her libido to nearly zero. I'm the opposite, and have not found a reasonable way to cope with the immense disparity. Her medical issues are far bigger than my emotional ones, and I am not trying to change her in any way. I just need to figure out how to deal with this frustration. I hope I don't sound like a jerk - I think I'm a good husband (coffee in bed daily, love notes, random flower deliveries) and father (cooking, cleaning, shopping, homework, fishing, sports, etc)...but I just can't figure out how to handle this. There has to be a way! Would love to hear from somebody who has some ideas - and than you to anybody who has made it this far :-)
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