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Texting Habbits
Relationship Stress / by DaveDotNet
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 September 6th, 2021
...See more Basically I've known this girl since school we dated 3 years ago for a couple weeks where she apparently ended things due to her mental health. She has text me a few times since but has dissapeared as soon as she's appeared. Which again she puts down to her mental health. Skip to beginning of July. She started texting me a lot. I was in a complicated situation so I wouldn't reply much but she kept going and appolagising for coming and going saying it was a huge mistake breaking up with me and she's regretted it ever since. I was hesitant but entertained it at a distance. Now I'm more interested her texting style is a bit strange she would message me long detailed texts then I'd reply a couple hours later or before bed then usually a day would pass I'd get a reply saying something along the lines of "Sorry lovely been doing a load of night shifts I'll text back properly later 😘 xxx" then get a similar text after another day with another excuse then she would reply properly in detail. We met up for the first time in 3 years Saturday had an amazing time... she lives 2.5 hours away so we went back to a hotel and yeah. There was a lot of tension that needed releasing after 3 years 😂. We continued to have a great time through the Sunday. She was very affectionate. Told me to text her when I got home. I text her the Sunday night she Replied Monday around 5 saying "Hey lovely ☺️ Glad you decided to stay at your sister’s last night and break the journey up a bit ☺️ What have you been up to today? ❤️ I’ll reply properly on my break later as I’m just getting ready to head back to work now 😫😴 Thank you for such a lovely weekend 🥰 xxxx" I text back a couple hours later and haven't received a reply since. She hasn't even read it. I text her again later just making sure she's OK and sent a picture of the two of us together to cheer her up as I know she struggles with the night working. I guess I get a bit worried due to her past flakiness. Does anyone else know other people who are a bit like this? My previous relationships we would text through the day so it's going to take a bit of adjustment to get used to. Surely being in the honeymoon period she should want to text me 🤷🏻‍♂️
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