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...See more So I'm in a relationship with this guy and it's about 3 months since we've been together. And we haven't meet yet. We're not in a long distance relationship. We're living in the same state just different place and it took about 30 minutes something to go to each other places. But I don't know why we haven't meet yet. I always ask him to hang out with him, do things together and I often invite him to my function (sometimes my friends throwing parties and I invited him but yeah, excuses) I just can't make up my mind. When he giving excuses all I did was sulking and he full with sweet words so I forgive him. He always said, "we'll meet someday just not today." Side, he's a really busy guy. He works like 24/7. It's not really works.... it just. I don't know how to say this. Okay 8 am until 4 pm, he went to work. 5pm until 7 or 8 something he busy with his hobbies. He like to play sports such like football, footvolley, sometimes he went fishing late at night. Yes. He busy and rarely has time for me. But he always give me call everyday. He never missed it. It looks like he do love me and I do believe him but now table turns. I don't know what to believe anymore. I read a lot of relationship thread online such on twitter and makes me doubt him. I don't know.. I really love him though I never meet him. And oh he's not catfishing me bcs we often video call and sending selfies so I think he's not catfishing me. And I also know several of his friends so I think he's a real human. Hmm.. okay so lately about 3 days before we're having an argument. It's not a serious argument it just me who picking up the fight bcs he didn't reply and open my text while his last seen always changing and he didn't call me all day but only at night. He explained why he did that. (It's bcs one day before my friend saw my text with him and it kinda harsh so he decided not to create any conversation history that day bcs he realise it was his fault) ugh idkkk. He's so unpredictable. I don't know the way he think. And last night I said to him "let me go." He thought I was playing so he start to sing don't let me down but changw it to don't let me go. Then I rising up my voice and said it again, "let me go, I'm serious. You want me or don't want me?!" (We were on the phone) he was startled and he said I want you and change the topic real quick. Hm. He always like that. When I'm bringing up the breakup things, he'll make jokes and never be serious about that. Ugh I could just leave you without asking but I can't do that bcs I'm scared of karma. I really don't know what to do. I love him. I really do. He is so different than other guy and sometines I think that I'm such a lucky girk to know him. But I really don't know now. He know how to handle me, make me laugh everyday and know how to get me. And you guys know? WE WERE NEVER HAVING AN ARGUMENT MORE THAN ONE DAY AND USUALLY IT ONLY LAST LONGER FOR LIKE 2 HOURS....bcs he know how to make me laugh when I'm mad. He said, he don't like when I'm sulking bcs sometimes it only a small matter we shouldn't make it complicated. Yeah. But really, I don't know what to do. Is he being true to me? Or he just play me? When he came back from playinh footvolley at night, he'll call me. Sometimes I can hear his voice like breathless bcs tiredness but he give me a call straight away but I think it's not enough to say he don't lie to me? Does it? Hm. And when he wake up in the morning, he'll call me. I remember when he leaving me for 3 days bcs he went fishing. It was second day when he call me and said he want to go home early bcs he miss me. (And it was bcs the waves) we're never have any disagreement about cheating, lies about girls, girl friends, boy friends bcs we both know the boundaries. Baby I love you so much but I don't know if I should try harder or give up. This is all messed up. I don't know what to do 😔

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