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Diamond71
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A yeah and a half of continued cheating
Relationship Stress / by Diamond71
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 December 22nd, 2025
...See more Hello everyone, I’ve been in a relationship with my partner for 7 years. We have a 6-year-old child together and a newborn on the way. Last week, I learned that she has been sexually cheating on me for about a year and a half. I caught her twice during this period, and each time she promised it had stopped — but I recently found out it continued, well she exposed herself by mistake. I’m struggling because some of the things she said to me during this time have really damaged my self-esteem. She’s told me that I’m not sexually desirable to her the way this other man was, and that has been extremely hard for me to process. I want to forgive her for the sake of my family, but I genuinely don’t know how. I can’t stop thinking about why she kept doing this and what it means for my future. I feel lost and unsure what steps to take next.
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