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About Me

In my spare time I enjoy reading, self-educating and playing games. When you have a discussion with myself, you are under no obligation to provide any information you do not feel comfortable sharing; all chats are 100% confidential and within a safe environment.


The past doesn't have to be your future.

Number of Ratings: 44
Number of Reviews: 13
Listens to Over 18
Languages English
Listener Since Feb 26, 2015
Last Active in last month
Gender Female
Progress Path Step 701
Cheers 49,796
People Helped 69
Chats 484
Group Support Chats 221
Listener Group Chats 331
Forum Posts 364
Forum Upvotes 351
Feedback & Reviews
The person tried her best to just be there for me and was caring. I appreciate the time offered to me, just for being there. Thank you.
She was very kind.
KaceySkylar is a good listener. A caring person.
I've never met a super hero before... but the amount of hope she gives me is as close to a super power as I've ever seen. :) She is honest, witty, and willing to chat about very personal matters with care. She is pretty much the perfect listener.
was really helpful and i feel a lot better after talking! :) 3 cheers!
I love her!! ♥
Nice person..
thanks for your time
Wonderful listener. Thank you!
Very kind, helpful and upfront. I got exactly what i needed
Really Cool
Lovely listener who genuinely tries to help
Very supportive and made me feel better. Was upto my expectations
Badges & Awards
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Questions Answered
What does depression feel like?
July 11th, 2015 4:05pm
How do you deal with depression after a breakup?
July 10th, 2015 4:32pm
Do I need to tell people that I'm depressed?
April 16th, 2015 4:38pm
No one cares about me, why does 7 Cups of Tea care?
April 16th, 2015 3:07pm
How can I stay motivated when I suffer from depression?
April 16th, 2015 3:02pm
Should I go on antidepressants?
June 4th, 2015 11:58pm
What is the best way to stop everything from piling up inside your mind?
June 6th, 2015 12:43am
When depressed, why do the smallest of things sometimes just send you into this downward spiral that won't stop?
April 16th, 2015 4:49pm
Is depression genetic, environmental, and/or behavioral?
November 30th, 2015 2:23pm
How do I keep my motivation up if I can't even get out of bed in the morning?
November 30th, 2015 2:37pm
Why am I no longer interested in things that once made me so happy?
April 13th, 2016 12:02am
How to be happy again? It's been so long I forget what happy feels like.
July 14th, 2015 10:38pm
Why do I have depression?
June 5th, 2015 1:05am
Why do I always feel like I'm never going to get over my depression, no matter how long or how hard I try?
April 16th, 2015 5:17pm
How can I help people with cancer?
November 29th, 2015 3:40pm
How can I volunteer online helping people?
September 6th, 2015 10:37pm
Online Volunteer Opportunities: Why should I be a 7Cups listener?
November 29th, 2015 3:34pm
who do you talk to about depression?
April 13th, 2016 12:19am
What to do when you're lonely and depressed?
April 13th, 2016 12:16am
How do I stop being judgemental?
September 1st, 2018 6:54pm
I think I have depression and I want to tell my parents but my brother recently got diagnosed so I feel like they would think that I'm just trying to get attention. What do I do?
September 1st, 2018 8:04pm
How can I deal with feelings I can't find words to express?
July 8th, 2015 10:26am
How can I learn to control my emotions when I don't even know what they are?
July 11th, 2015 2:40pm
Why do I feel so numb all the time?
July 11th, 2015 4:13pm
I have never felt so sad in my life. Why do I feel this way?
December 3rd, 2015 11:56am
Are some emotions harder to control and deal with than others ?
April 16th, 2015 3:54pm
Is hiding your emotions unhealthy ?
May 10th, 2015 9:22am
How do I keep it all inside, but not blow up on people?
April 16th, 2015 4:33pm
Why do I always get so triggered when I am angry?
June 6th, 2015 3:10am
Why do I always go from one extreme to the other? Why can't I just be normal?
May 10th, 2015 12:52pm
Is it normal to be angry with small things?
June 5th, 2015 12:01am
How can I keep my emotions under control and stay mindful when I am feeling so many different emotions so intensely?
December 1st, 2015 1:36pm
Why do I daydream about how my family would react if I were in an accident and needing to be in the hospital?
June 6th, 2015 12:50am
Why do I always feel sad about other peoples problems?
April 16th, 2015 3:22pm
How can I learn to better manage my anger?
November 30th, 2015 2:20pm
Why can I never cry when I want to?
July 14th, 2015 11:07pm
How do I stop thinking about death?
May 23rd, 2015 1:33pm
How do I prevent negative thinking?
September 1st, 2018 6:24pm
I don't like my job anymore. Should I quit or continue doing it?
July 8th, 2015 6:04pm
Am I a bad employee if I skip work because of work stress?
November 30th, 2015 2:10pm
How can I manage all of my work outside of the workplace?
April 16th, 2015 3:36pm
Why is it so hard for me to be good at customer service?
June 9th, 2015 5:40pm
How do I see the bright side of a job that I really don't enjoy?
June 5th, 2015 12:43am
Am I weak, if I choose not to stand up for myself and just walk away?
June 6th, 2015 12:48am
Why do people hate me for no reason?
June 6th, 2015 3:18am
Why does bullying hurt for so long?
June 6th, 2015 3:23am
Why is it so hard for adults to understand why teens and children don't involve them when they are being bullied?
November 30th, 2015 2:35pm
Is it normal for older kids to push me around and tell me what to do and make me do stuff for them?
May 10th, 2015 10:00am
How do you effectively confront people who are spreading negative rumors about you?
June 5th, 2015 12:10am
Can bullying cause problems in later years?
April 16th, 2015 4:27pm
What comes in the bully's mind when he bullies me? Is this really making him feel better?
December 1st, 2015 1:24pm
Why bullies tend to become more aggressive when you show them you just want peace?
June 6th, 2015 12:46am
Why can't I stop bullying others even when I see how bad it really hurts them?
April 16th, 2015 4:08pm
Why can't I react to bullying in an assertive way?
April 16th, 2015 5:15pm
How do I stand up for myself?
November 30th, 2015 2:41pm
How can I deal with a panic attack when I am out?
July 14th, 2015 10:51pm
How can I calm down during a panic attack?
July 8th, 2015 5:30pm
How do I know if I'm really having a panic attack or if I'm just freaking out?
July 10th, 2015 4:26pm
Is it considered a panic attack if I do not get any chest cramps or major pain?
June 5th, 2015 12:16am
Why does my body stay in shock and take so long to settle down if I know I'm having a panic attack ?
November 30th, 2015 2:09pm
How can I escape a crowded environment when I feel a panic attack coming on ?
April 16th, 2015 3:43pm
What are some ways to tackle a panic attack?
April 16th, 2015 3:00pm
Why do I get panic attacks at random moments?
April 16th, 2015 4:32pm
Can I drink alcohol or use recreational drugs if I have anxiety?
June 4th, 2015 11:42pm
Can anxiety cause me to feel depressed?
July 18th, 2015 8:05pm
What types of medications exist for anxiety?
April 16th, 2015 3:20pm
Can anxiety and depression from a break up be a cause of weight loss?
May 10th, 2015 12:54pm
How do I know if Im having anxiety without going to a doctor?
July 13th, 2015 4:10pm
What causes anxiety disorders?
April 16th, 2015 4:01pm
Why do people always hurt me when I just try to help?
June 5th, 2015 12:40am
Why do I have all of these irrational fears, like talking to other people and going outside? What's wrong with me?
June 9th, 2015 6:19pm
How can I stop worrying what others think of me?
July 14th, 2015 11:04pm
How can I quit smoking? Any good ideas?
December 1st, 2015 10:42am
What if the person I was just talking to thought I was trying to be rude?
September 7th, 2015 1:20am
How do I accept trying to get rid of my anxiety when it feels like such a big part of me?
June 9th, 2015 5:37pm
What are some ways to contain really bad anxiety in public places without having to make it obvious or leave the room?
April 16th, 2015 4:30pm
How do I live in the moment?
April 13th, 2016 12:36am
How can I stop my hands shaking
November 30th, 2015 2:32pm
How can I explain to people my irrational fear?
April 16th, 2015 3:56pm
How to stop thinking about a guy who dumped you or is bad for you?
April 13th, 2016 12:39am
How do I know if I did the right thing?
September 1st, 2018 6:28pm
How do I know if I'm gay, lesbian, or bisexual?
April 16th, 2015 4:00pm
How do I know if I am transgender?
July 10th, 2015 1:02pm
How can you tell if you are a boy or a girl, or something else entirely?
July 8th, 2015 5:23pm
Sexual attraction: What's the difference between romantic attraction and sexual attraction?
July 8th, 2015 5:26pm
Will people learn to accept me as a LGBTQ member?
July 14th, 2015 11:15pm
It is normal to have feelings about the same gender?
July 13th, 2015 5:40pm
Why do fellow LGBT people not want to discuss about their sexuality when they are just as alone in this as me?
April 16th, 2015 4:42pm
Why am I attracted to people of the same gender?
June 5th, 2015 1:16am
Where can i meet others like me?
April 16th, 2015 4:57pm
Why does it feel like only certain types of LBGTQIAP+ people are accepted within the community?
July 14th, 2015 11:10pm
How do I know how to label myself?
April 16th, 2015 3:12pm
What is the Butterfly Project?
July 11th, 2015 2:29pm
Can self harm be considered a coping mechanism?
July 14th, 2015 10:35pm
When I'm angry, why do I always feel the need to hurt myself?
July 18th, 2015 8:00pm
Why do my scars still itch?
July 10th, 2015 4:18pm
Do you think Self Harm is an addiction?
April 12th, 2016 11:53pm
How do I get help without seeming like I'm desperate for someone to notice my situation?
April 12th, 2016 11:59pm
Why do I feel like I need to hurt myself in order to feel better?
May 23rd, 2015 1:07am
Why can't I stop thinking about how pretty blood is?
June 9th, 2015 6:06pm
Does scratching count as self harm if I don't bleed?
May 10th, 2015 9:16am
why do I feel like I need to self-harm to feel okay?
May 10th, 2015 10:03am
Do sleeping pills work?
June 6th, 2015 3:16am
Why do I keep waking up too early in the morning?
July 9th, 2015 11:53am
How long should I go without sleeping before I go to the doctor?
April 16th, 2015 4:44pm
I'm stressed out and when I try to go to sleep I can't shut off my thoughts. What should I do?
July 9th, 2015 2:08pm
How to get rid of all those thoughts that are stopping me from falling asleep?
April 16th, 2015 5:13pm
Why can't my mind stop thinking when I'm trying to sleep?
June 6th, 2015 12:54am
Should I take pills to sleep better?
June 6th, 2015 3:09am
What are some techniques to help you fall asleep at night when you are really stressed?
November 30th, 2015 2:14pm
Is it normal to remember my dreams almost 2 days later?
May 10th, 2015 12:49pm
How do I make myself wake up early on my days off when all I want to do is sleep in?
April 16th, 2015 5:19pm
What do I do if my ex keeps contacting me?
July 8th, 2015 10:16am
I still love my ex. Should I feel this way?
July 8th, 2015 5:28pm
Why does breaking up hurt so much?
July 8th, 2015 10:20am
How long does it take to get over someone?
July 8th, 2015 5:29pm
What's the best way to get over someone who you liked for 5 years?
April 16th, 2015 4:26pm
How do you deal with the temptation to contact your ex?
May 8th, 2020 2:15pm
I want to break up, but I'm scared that no one will ever love me again. What should I do?
September 7th, 2015 11:57pm
Is it okay to be single forever?
July 18th, 2015 8:02pm
I still have dreams about my ex, sometimes they're good and sometimes they're bad. What does that mean?
April 16th, 2015 3:46pm
Do I miss the person, or the relationship?
April 16th, 2015 4:53pm
How to move on in life?
April 16th, 2015 3:51pm
What is the best way to stop myself from calling my ex whenever I'm lonely?
May 10th, 2015 9:11am
Why do I always feel like it's all my fault after breakups?
November 30th, 2015 2:44pm
How long does it take to get over a break up?
June 5th, 2015 1:20am
What strategy is best when you want to break up but can't stand the idea that your partner will move on to another person.
June 6th, 2015 12:37am
How can i stop hurting over someone that possibly never cared about me or my existence at all?
June 5th, 2015 12:51am
Why do we get into a relationship with someone we barely know?
June 5th, 2015 12:52am
How should I feel after being rejected?
April 16th, 2015 3:58pm
Will I ever feel like I'll be able to love someone again?
April 16th, 2015 4:02pm
Why do we tend to keep wanting to go back to the person who has hurt us the most?
May 23rd, 2015 1:23pm
Why is it so hard to talk to an ex-boyfriend or ex-girlfriend?
April 16th, 2015 4:29pm
how can i stop texting someone who is ignoring me ?
June 5th, 2015 1:00am
How am I supposed to love someone else when my heart still strongly belongs to one who abused me long ago?
June 9th, 2015 6:02pm
Why do I keep going back to my toxic relationship?
June 5th, 2015 12:12am
What could I have done better to fix this relationship?
April 12th, 2016 11:56pm
What can I talk about with my crush?
November 29th, 2015 3:43pm
How long does it take to get over someone who cheated on you?
April 13th, 2016 12:28am
My parents keep fighting, what can I do about it?
April 16th, 2015 3:10pm
A family member passed away. How can I cope knowing that I'll never see them again?
April 16th, 2015 5:06pm
My family is unhealthy for me, how do I break ties?
June 5th, 2015 1:21am
How to live with a mentally ill mother?
April 16th, 2015 4:55pm
My parents are poor. How can I be successful?
June 6th, 2015 12:15am
Why do my parents treat my sister better than me?
June 4th, 2015 11:47pm
How do you choose between your sanity and your family? How can you make the decision to walk away from your own family, even if you know it's best for you?
July 14th, 2015 4:19pm
Why can't I please my parents?
July 14th, 2015 10:42pm
I am adopted and want to find my birth mother, my mom seems very uneasy about my wanting to do this. How can I ease her worries and still ty to do this?
June 6th, 2015 1:01am
How can I stop thinking about my family smoking and drinking and cursing everyday?
April 16th, 2015 3:03pm
Why does everyone seem to want to tear each other down all the time?
April 16th, 2015 3:24pm
Why do they always make me feel guilty?
April 16th, 2015 4:56pm
Why do my parents struggle with alcohol and it only gets worse?
June 5th, 2015 12:54am
How can I earn the approval of my parents when I feel like all I do is let them down?
April 16th, 2015 3:34pm
Am I obligated to immediately forgive someone for a wrongdoing just because they are family?
July 14th, 2015 4:28pm
How can I talk to my sister about her drug problem without her getting defensive and/or leaving?
June 5th, 2015 1:13am
Why does it sometimes feel that unconditional love does not exist?
June 4th, 2015 11:40pm
Why can't I feel part of a family at home?
April 16th, 2015 3:28pm
Why do adults act like children when it comes to arguments? They'll argue over the most trivial of things, like two toddlers who don't get what they want.
July 14th, 2015 10:55pm
Why can't they accept me for who I am?
April 16th, 2015 3:40pm
I'm cheating on my boyfriend or girlfriend. Am I a bad person?
November 29th, 2015 3:29pm
How do I know if I have postpartum depression?
April 13th, 2016 12:22am
How can I stop the images of the traumatic experience from playing and re-playing through my head constantly?
June 9th, 2015 6:25pm
How can I stop flash backs from happening?
June 9th, 2015 5:45pm
How do I deal with the death of a family member?
June 5th, 2015 1:02am
Why do I feel guilty about my sister's death by cancer, even though it was completely out of my control?
April 16th, 2015 4:07pm
Why do I want bad things to happen to me?
September 1st, 2018 8:07pm
Why can't I stop thinking in circles?
June 5th, 2015 1:18am
How can I keep everything from piling up?
April 16th, 2015 3:15pm
How come the more I go through life, I only keep finding questions but never answers?
April 16th, 2015 3:18pm
Why can't I accept that it's over?
April 16th, 2015 4:09pm
Why do I wake up stressed about my future ?
July 14th, 2015 10:40pm
Why doesn't taking care of myself come naturally to me?
May 8th, 2020 2:11pm
When the people I care for can't contact me, how do I stop myself from feeling so helplessly lonely?
April 16th, 2015 3:31pm
I tried to talk to someone about what happened to me, but they just said I should stop complaining. Are they right?
June 5th, 2015 1:07am
Why can it be so hard to forget, even when danger/injury was narrowly avoided?
June 9th, 2015 5:53pm
Will there be a point that I can start to use my experiance to think constructively about my future?
February 26th, 2015 9:01pm
Why do I find it so hard to accept things that i cannot change?
April 16th, 2015 5:12pm
Why couldn't I have done anything?
April 16th, 2015 3:49pm
How can I stop being insecure in my relationship?
July 11th, 2015 2:37pm
What should I do when my boyfriend ignores me?
July 11th, 2015 4:10pm
How do you tell your friend that you disagree with them without hurting their feelings?
May 8th, 2020 2:18pm