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DipityEnigma
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Number of ratings44 Number of reviews13 Listens toOver 18 LanguagesEnglish Listener sinceFeb 26, 2015 Last activein last 6 months GenderFemale PathStep 728 People helped69 Chats484 Group support chats221 Listener group chats344 Forum posts396 Forum upvotes433
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I have a passion for counselling and as such, strive for excellence within the field. I have been volunteering as a 'Listener' for nearly a decade, during which I have amassed a multitude of badges.

Recent forum posts
PFP Stories
Reading & Writing / by DipityEnigma
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December 23rd, 2022
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...See more I had the idea that we could come up with stories about our PFPs. Making something up for fun based on them. Here’s the story I’ve written about my PFP: The Earth, otherwise known as Mr Hue Manne B. Reather was sitting watching “How not to spin” on TV when his dog, otherwise known as Cray Thor, started bouncing up and down excitedly. Well, Mr Reather thought he wanted to play and took out his Meat-eor ball and started playing fetch. The dog wasn’t having any of it and huffed space dust at him in disdain. Mr Reather looked at him confused. “Ah!” he thought to himself. “Perhaps he’s hungry.” So off to the kitchen he went with Cray in tow. He grabbed a can of Argon-40 and flopped it into a bowl before putting it on the ground. Cray sniffed the contents, lifted his head and then stuck his tongue out at Mr Reather before turning and bouncing off. Mr Reather followed Cray into the hallway where he saw his dog bouncing up and down erratically at the leash. “You want out?” he asked Cray. “Ssssnarf! Ssssnarf!” Cray barked. “Why didn’t you just say that to begin with?!” So Mr Reather put the leash on Cray and went off for a jolly walk down to the park. The End. Disclaimer: please remember to adhere to the guidelines [https://www.7cups.com/forum/7CupsLeadership_188/SafetyGuidelines_1374/ForumGuidelinesExpanded10CommunityGuidelines_182406/] when making your posts. Please remember to keep all stories family friendly.
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What's that song?
Music & Dance / by DipityEnigma
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December 31st, 2022
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...See more Post a sentence from the lyrics of a song and people have to try to guess which song it is. If you guess it right, post another sentence from the lyrics of a song. Easy start: "I don't care, I don't care so call me crazy" Disclaimer: please remember to follow the guidelines [https://www.7cups.com/forum/7CupsLeadership_188/SafetyGuidelines_1374/ForumGuidelinesExpanded10CommunityGuidelines_182406/] when making your posts. Swearing is prohibited and must be censored with asterisks (*). Thank you for your cooperation.
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One of my drawings.
Arts & Crafts / by DipityEnigma
Last post
December 23rd, 2022
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...See more I drew this picture in 2018 and there's a backstory to this one. I was in a cafe and was inspired to draw something as they were selling drawings and photos that people from the community brought in. I got to know the people there and asked if I could draw something and bring it in. So I drew the picture below and took it into them. I wasn't bothered about the money, I just wanted to share my love for drawing but when I took in the picture, the guy said to me that he really liked it and wanted it for himself and wouldn't take no for an answer for payment of it. So he gave me a small amount for it which I then put into the tip jar 😂 The cafe closed unfortunately but this was the picture. I had considered making it into a series at that time. Haha. Anyone else have any drawings with a backstory? 😊 If you'd like to see more drawings, let me know. I don't currently have more but I do want to get back into it. If you'd like me to tag you in future posts with my drawings, please type TAG in your post and feel free to tag me in any of yours 😍 Tag: @audienta
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Survey Proposal
Site Updates / by DipityEnigma
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September 15th, 2018
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...See more Having a discussion with people about the new 7cups app to collect data to help further benefit mental health and learn more about it, I was thinking about a survey located on the website perhaps on the "Path" section of the website to collect voluntary information. You could implement a survey that asks the user questions based on a 1-10 rating system that the user could fill in once a week related to the information that you're looking for. Sometimes it's just easier to ask questions directly. Anonymous, of course. Could have questions realted to mental health and ask them how they've been feeling over the past week and ask questions such as "On a scale of 1-10, has this website helped improve your mental health in the past week?" and "On a scale of 1-10, how would you rate the feeling of need to SH over the past week?" etc. Remember that the questions would be anonymous in the survey making it easier for people to answer any questions given. It all just depends upon what questions you're looking to ba answered. The above questions are only examples as I don't know 100% what information you would be looking for. I would most definitely partake in it and you could easily see the difference every week which would help you understand the health issues at hand. You could also insert a "select all that apply" section below which asks which areas of mental health they have difficulty with. You could also include an age range that the user selects so you have an idea of what age range it is affecting. Just an idea. Not intending to cause offense or upset anyone with the above information. What does anyone else think? Would you participate if something like this was available to you?
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Censoring Proposal
Site Updates / by DipityEnigma
Last post
September 2nd, 2018
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...See more Please note: the following is nothing more than suggestions that can be improved upon and nothing that has been written is intended to offend the staff, members, website developers or the creator. Some of us have agreed that the censoring on this site could be improved further. I was having a discussion today about the censoring within this website and came up with the following suggestions: Instead of having asterisks to censor the words, it would be much more simpler and less offending to others if the offensive words were simply withdrawn before posting. So, as an example, instead of reading as: "**** this **** I'm out" It would read as: "this I'm out" Why? More and more people will attempt to work-around the issue at hand but will be less tempted to if no one even knew they were attemtping to cuss and just thought that they were misspelling or left a word out. People would be less offended because they wouldn't even know that someone was attempting to break the rules and (whether intentionally or not) offend others. But there's another issue. It's been pointed out on many ocassions that the censor (in some cases) works too well; blocking words that aren't even offensive and leaving you thinking "where is the offensive word that won't allow me to send this message?" I do believe that an automatic censoring has been implemented as I can't imagine someone inputing a non-offensive word into the system for censoring. If I am correct, I would suggest implementing a manual censoring where you simply input the keywords into the correct field in order to block the words that really are offensive. Other pro's include: Quick and easy inclusion. Human error only so minimal words are accidentally censored. Can input personalized words such as work-around words. Example: "He-llo" but a cuss word. More control over the words used. Eventually, people will get bored of attempting to come up with new ways of working around the system. This will also mean that less moderators will be needed for the over use of words that have been censored with asterisks. Not only will people find the blocked word less offensive because they don't know what they were trying to say, but it also means that it's less annoying and looks much more appealing. This will also descrease the amount of people blocked for abusing the censorship in place. Might I also add that it's a bit counter-productive showing asterisks for a word that no one wants to see anyway instead of leaving onlookers guessing what the word they were trying to use could be. This implementation also means less arguing, more of a calm atmosphere and less intended aggravation. What's also good about this is when someone comes into a chatroom and is upset because of certain circumstances, they aren't met with "please stop cussing" followed by "if you don't stop cussing, you're going to be kicked". Situations such as this just make matters worse. The censorship is supposed to assist people, not barage them further. One of the other points to make is that some people are just cussing because it's what they do. Not all users but some use cuss words in the heat of the moment to get rid of pent up anger and/or to vent. Simply knowing that you typed out your true emotions is enough for some. It may also help to decrease the need to use cuss words. If no one can see the words that you know yourself you're using, no one can pick up on the fact that you have been using them all along, unless you state otherwise. If there's no point in using a cuss word, then why would you use it? Most people only use cuss words for effect so if we can intervene an impactful use of a cuss word, do you not think it should be our responsibility to do so? What are your thoughts on the matter? As Listeners, members and moderators, do you think something like this would be beneficial? Do you have any other suggestions?
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