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Dragon2
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Masturbation Free July Attempt
Men's Issues / by Dragon2
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 September 6th
...See more 6 months ago I attempted and completed successfully a "No Nut November" type of thing in January I am really aiming to get to end of this July month and succeed again without doing any masturbation 🙏
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Masturbation Free January Attempt
Men's Issues / by Dragon2
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 May 10th
...See more New Year and I’m attempting a “No Nut November” type of thing in January 4 days so far and really aiming to get to end of month 🙏
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Question - what do you call 2 people who are more then Best Friends but are not dating?
Relationship Stress / by Dragon2
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 March 31st, 2017
...See more I am in this situaiton now and am curious to know what to call it...
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Everyone is married or getting married except me- sigh
Relationship Stress / by Dragon2
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 February 5th, 2015
...See more I guess I feel a bit down as all my friends are either in relationships or getting married / are married and I'm the odd one out. it's on my mind often and it can ruin my mood being single (never had a relationship I must add)  
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Continue or give up?
Relationship Stress / by Dragon2
Last post
 September 1st, 2014
...See more So I am in a yo-yo friendship with my  best friend. I am 26 male - she is 32 female. We used to work together and we became friends slowly over the last 2 years but she was fired 1 year ago - but we kept in touch. To put it simply no one in my life makes me so happy and so sad as she does. I have almost given up on our friendship many times but she always manages to change my mind by doing or saying the right thing. Also I love her so my heart won't let me give up so easily - a blessing and  a curse sometimes. We live one hour apart driving and I tend to only see her face to face 3-4 times a year. So far I haven't seen her for 4 months. She keeps making excuses not being able to see me then goes out with other friends or herself  without mentioning to me - I only discover after the fact when she posts pictures. She is busy with her business which I understand but I feel she is hiding things from me. I just feel sad as she says we are best friends but she doesn't really treat be like one - like ignoring my messages and replying after days and making excuses to not meet me - it is really frustrating. I have talked to her about my sadness and how I don't feel she is treating me like a friend should - she says sorry changes then goes back to the same way after a few weeks.  I don't know if she is just saying we are best friends because we are or she is just keeping me in her life as she knows I love her and treat her better then any other guy - her words not mine.  She did say however that I will have a special place on her heart and mind always. She also mentioned once that she would have married me if she was my age but as she isn't a relationship is not possible - I am still the same person so I don't get that comment. If I could find another female friend who actually cares more about me she replies faster to messages I would leave her - but the problem is I can't find anyone so I am staying friends with her for the sake of it - better to have someone then no one. Finally I find a girl that notices me (her) and still I cannot be fully happy - am I being unrealistic to expect this from my friend?
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