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splitting on best friend
Personality Disorders Support / by Dysfunctionalllama
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 August 22nd, 2019
...See more so my best(and only) friend. I lived with them for 9 months, and now hes moving two hours away, and got a new job that doesnt give him much free time when he can visit, so its really just whenever i find time away from school that i can see him. so im not doing well with the change, go figure. since he moved, ive been talking to him almost every single day. which is great. what isnt great is that around the time it gets late, i start missing him and getting sad. and he normally wants to go to bed around then. which is frustrating me a lot that he cant be there to support me when i need it. so i get upset, and end up splitting. which leads to me saying hurtful things i dont mean and getting mean. so today he decided he just will stay away when i 'get mean'. which is the last thing i want. so before i ruin the best friendship ive ever had, does anyone have any tips or tricks for stopping splitting, or catching it earlier on?
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