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Elizawan
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I hope I am loved even when I am not confident
General Support / by Elizawan
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 August 11th, 2025
...See more People often blame I am not confident, or give me negative or indifferent responses. It feels like they love me, or confide in me only when I am good enough. But deep down I believe I deserve more love and help because I struggle to perform/ to live because of the shattered confidence due to traumatic experience. I hope people focus on the good sides on me, rather than pressuring me to improve sides I am not good enough.  I am worn out acting confident/ capable to avoid the contempt from others. It feels like my heart has already run out of blood. I hope that people respond with my vulnerability with 'I understand.', or truly feeling it, instead of solutions or something like 'you're overthinking/ being sensitive.'. 
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