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Erynn |
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5.0 star rating

Hello! I am a queer woman who grew up in the LGBT+ community. I have experience with some mental illness of my own and those of a loved one. I have particular interest in: anxiety, depression, self harm, and the LGBTQ+ community (and I really mean the WHOLE community!). I love my rabbit and working with kids. If I'm online, then please feel free to start a chat. If I'm offline, then send me a message and we can set up a time to connect. I'm so glad you are here!

Number of Ratings: 107
Number of Reviews: 41
Listens to Over 18
Languages English
Listener Since Apr 23, 2014
Last Active over 6 months ago
Gender Female
Progress Path Step 558
Cheers 29,025
People Helped 110
Chats 447
Group Support Chats 41
Listener Group Chats 182
Forum Posts 192
Forum Upvotes 463
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Feedback & Reviews
Very kind and helpful
she is good
as a first timer here, she was amazing, very helpful.
Erynn is simply amazing. Thank you so so much for all your help. :)
very good at their job
She is absolutely fantastic! But listener I've come across!
I'm thankful she's here
She's compassionate I hope there are more people like her
So friendly and open. Very helpful and informative. thank you so much
youre amazing! Thank you!
she is the 3rd listener i've tried on here and like LilyPink the 2nd, she is awesome. I am very grateful to her for giving me so much time - Thank you!! :)
Was very understanding and able to lead the conversation when I was nervous. Had a great deal of professionalism & kindness. Would recommend!
Erynn is a very special person. She understands me through the lens of my perspective. I recommend her very strongly to anyone who is struggling.
Your responses are very neutral. That's a gift and a talent. Thank you for your time.
I am still talking to Erynn but I can say he is a great listener!
Erynn, your help and support mean so much to me. Thank You
By far the most empathetic, understanding, kind listener I have talked to on here. I wish there was more I could do to thank you. You have been so wonderful.
Good listener. Comes across as caring and supportive. Thank you!
Very positive person, and a wonderful listening experience. Showed compassion, a pleasure to talk to.
wonderful human, helped me understand the situation and cheered me up
thanks, you brought me to myself
Really nice will chat again
Erynn was wonderful to talk to. They really helped me sort out my thoughts and seemed genuinely engaged. It was incredibly helpful.
You are cool and chill and innocent and non-judgemental. Very good ears. A+
Thank you so much! I wanted to continue wallowing in my own self-pity, but I had an essay to write, and you sort of forced me to redirect my focus towards that. It was exactly what I needed!
Absolutely amazing. I really felt like she was focused on me and not just giving stereotypical and generic answers. I definitely plan on speaking to her again.
I could not ask for a better listener. Erynn, the wonderful comments here say it all. You are a beautiful person! :)
I would recommend her to anyone. Helped me so much, thanks again!
A very kind-hearted listener
It was nice talking to you.
loved her!
Excellent listener, definitely helped to have someone there!
Kind and really supportive. I recommend this listener to anyone going through really rough times because she can make you feel a lot better.
Great listener! Definitely made me feel better and I felt like Erynn had a lot of compassion and wisdom.
Erynn is so kind and compassionate, I feel safe talking with her.
I will always come back to talk to you Erynn, because I know that I can trust you with anything. Thank you for everything.
Patient and understanding. Helped me come to terms with a few things.
Thank you for listening and helping get a bit more of a handle on my emotions. I appreciate your compassion and lack of judgement.
I had an excellent time talking with Erynn, very helpful and nice!
Erynn is really helpful & thoughtful listener Thank again .
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Questions Answered
What does depression feel like?
July 26th, 2015 4:14am
What kind of support is available for people suffering with post-natal depression?
December 6th, 2014 6:43am
How can you help someone suffering from post-natal depression?
December 14th, 2014 9:44pm
If so, what other problems do you think depression is linked with?
November 20th, 2014 11:19am
I'm always tired and too exhausted to seek help, what can I do?
December 14th, 2014 7:26pm
Is depression the same for everyone, or can it be different?
November 20th, 2014 11:08am
Do I need to tell people that I'm depressed?
July 26th, 2015 4:10am
What should I do when my depression starts getting severe or I start having suicidal thoughts?
November 20th, 2014 10:54am
What happens when someone calls a suicide hotline?
January 3rd, 2015 8:00pm
Will I always have depression?
November 16th, 2014 12:41am
Should I quit my job or take leave (FMLA) because I'm having a difficult time trying to function normally.
January 3rd, 2015 7:47pm
Can I be depressed and not know it?
November 16th, 2014 12:48am
Is it normal to feel depressed around Christmas or the holidays?
November 20th, 2014 11:00am
How can I stop being a pushover?
December 19th, 2014 4:28am
How can I stop being a control freak?
November 21st, 2014 1:53am
How do I stop from using the internet too much?
December 15th, 2014 1:55am
Why me?
November 21st, 2014 9:58am
How can I remember that things will get better?
November 21st, 2014 4:52am
Is it irresponsible for me to have kids because I have depression?
November 30th, 2014 6:07am
Am I going to meet someone else who likes me?
December 19th, 2014 4:30am
Why do depressed people push loved ones away?
December 14th, 2014 7:29pm
Why am I so depressed all of the time?
November 29th, 2014 11:19am
How to get rid of depression?
December 14th, 2014 7:40pm
How can I stop hating and criticizing myself so much?
December 14th, 2014 9:37pm
What's the best way to get over loneliness?
December 14th, 2014 9:48pm
How do I know if I'm sad or depressed?
December 14th, 2014 10:23pm
Why is being depressed bad?
December 14th, 2014 10:00pm
Why can't I just feel happy?
December 14th, 2014 6:48am
Why keep living, what's the use?
December 14th, 2014 2:04am
Whats the best way to get over mood swings?
December 14th, 2014 10:08pm
How do I tell people I'm depressed?
December 14th, 2014 10:03pm
Why does no one care about me?
December 15th, 2014 1:52am
When will this feeling of being trapped ever leave me?
December 19th, 2014 3:32am
What is the best way to stop everything from piling up inside your mind?
February 1st, 2015 5:12am
How do you climb out of that deep hole when you are at the bottom of your depression?
March 28th, 2015 10:10pm
I have no friends in high school or college. What should I do?
April 24th, 2016 4:11pm
Why do I get so depressed and what can I do to cope?
December 19th, 2014 5:39am
What are healthy boundaries? What are boundaries in the first place?
December 19th, 2014 6:53am
How can I learn to control my emotions when I don't even know what they are?
July 26th, 2015 4:07am
What do I do if I just feel numb?
December 25th, 2014 3:29am
How do I deal with the emotional changes?
December 24th, 2014 11:08am
Why do I feel so numb all the time?
December 24th, 2014 11:11am
How do I know if I have trouble with emotion regulation and what does that mean anyway?
December 19th, 2014 7:17am
How many emotions are there and what are they?
December 19th, 2014 6:27am
I have a hard time seeing others' emotions and thoughts as valid when they differ from my own. How can I do that?
December 19th, 2014 7:49am
How can I stop being jealous and insecure?
January 3rd, 2015 7:40pm
How can I stop being insecure?
December 19th, 2014 6:40am
How can I stop being angry?
December 19th, 2014 6:45am
How can I stop being a compulsive liar?
January 3rd, 2015 7:32pm
How can I stop being a hoarder?
December 19th, 2014 5:33am
How do I stop myself from crying?
December 30th, 2014 7:49pm
How do you solve an anger attack without harming others or yourself?
December 19th, 2014 5:22am
What can you do if your culture and family view showing emotion as weak?
December 19th, 2014 6:24am
I have never felt so sad in my life. Why do I feel this way?
December 19th, 2014 5:29am
Why am I so emotional right now?
December 19th, 2014 5:24am
Is hiding your emotions unhealthy ?
December 19th, 2014 5:44am
How do you protect yourself from overreacting when fighting with your loved ones?
December 19th, 2014 5:48am
Is it normal to feel so many emotions going through me all at once?
March 11th, 2015 6:35am
How can I stop being a bully?
December 26th, 2014 6:01am
How do I stop myself from binge eating?
December 19th, 2014 6:17am
How can I deal with separation anxiety?
December 19th, 2014 4:20am
Is there a cure for anxiety?
November 20th, 2014 10:57am
Is it safe to use beta blockers?
December 15th, 2014 1:53am
I have essential tremors, how can I overcome in social situations?
November 21st, 2014 1:58am
How to develop emotional detachment and not be rude?
December 17th, 2014 3:33am
What are the different types of anxiety?
December 19th, 2014 4:32am
Can I drink alcohol or use recreational drugs if I have anxiety?
March 12th, 2015 7:20am
I have a very public position, how can I deal with anxiety surrounding it?
December 14th, 2014 9:55pm
How can I get over my anxiety or fear of flying on airplanes?
November 22nd, 2014 1:58am
How can I stop being paranoid?
November 16th, 2014 12:34am
How do I stop sweating so much?
November 21st, 2014 4:14am
How do I stop biting my nails?
December 19th, 2014 5:15am
How can I overcome social anxiety?
December 19th, 2014 6:49am
What is the best way to get over anxiety due to fear of someone walking out of your life?
November 21st, 2014 5:27am
What are your personal strategies for coping with the symptoms of your anxiety?
November 21st, 2014 5:30am
How can I accept that my best friend is gone?
November 21st, 2014 4:55am
Will my anxiety ever go away?
December 30th, 2014 7:44pm
What's the best way to overcome stage fright?
December 13th, 2014 11:05pm
What is living without any anxiety like?
December 13th, 2014 11:35pm
How do I know if Im having anxiety without going to a doctor?
December 14th, 2014 3:06am
Why can't I force myself to go to class?
December 14th, 2014 9:42pm
What's the best way to open up around new people?
December 19th, 2014 6:57am
If people find out I am anxious, won't they think I'm incompetent, stupid or untrustworthy?
December 14th, 2014 7:38pm
Can other people tell when I'm anxious?
December 14th, 2014 9:51pm
How can I explain my anxiety to my partner?
December 17th, 2014 3:23am
How do you avoid getting panic attacks?
November 26th, 2014 4:44am
Why am I anxious at night before bed?
December 14th, 2014 10:30pm
What's the best way to get over negative automatic thoughts?
December 14th, 2014 2:56am
Does anxiety ever entirely go away?
December 14th, 2014 3:04am
How can I stop trembling when I'm anxious?
December 14th, 2014 10:32pm
Does having anxiety mean your crazy/mental?
December 13th, 2014 11:32pm
How do I deal with all the anxiety and stress from school?
December 14th, 2014 3:03am
Do people actually like me for me?
December 14th, 2014 8:21am
What's the best way to get over rejection from schools?
December 17th, 2014 4:26am
Who can get anxiety?
December 14th, 2014 1:11am
what are some good and healthy distractions from my anxiety when it gets really bad?
December 14th, 2014 3:00am
What's the difference between anxiety and worrying?
December 17th, 2014 3:38am
Why do I get anxious when my boyfriend goes out?
December 26th, 2014 6:03am
Why am I nervous around my girlfriend?
December 6th, 2014 6:39am
What's the best tip to calm down?
December 16th, 2014 6:24am
When should you seek medical attention for anxiety?
May 1st, 2018 1:44pm
Is it normal to feel scared to go to college?
May 17th, 2018 1:35am
What's the easiest way to come out of the closet?
December 24th, 2014 10:56am
How do I know if I'm gay, lesbian, or bisexual?
November 16th, 2014 12:56am
How can I support my friend who is gay?
May 3rd, 2015 8:51pm
How can I support my friend who is transgender?
December 24th, 2014 11:35pm
How do I know if I am transgender?
November 22nd, 2014 2:00am
I don't want the same things other people do. Is there something wrong with me? Am I broken?
December 19th, 2014 4:23am
What might help me figure out my sexual identity?
November 26th, 2014 4:51am
How can you tell if you are a boy or a girl, or something else entirely?
December 14th, 2014 10:27pm
Why do we have to label our relationship?
December 16th, 2014 1:28am
Am I really who I want to be?
November 29th, 2014 8:39am
What is asexuality?
December 14th, 2014 4:51am
Sexual attraction: What's the difference between romantic attraction and sexual attraction?
November 29th, 2014 8:37am
Why is it so hard for people to understand my sexuality?
December 19th, 2014 4:25am
Am I bisexual or am I lesbian?
December 16th, 2014 4:02am
i have always struggled with people who ask if they are genderless, i can't really get my head around it.
November 28th, 2014 1:29am
Are you gay by birth or is it something you develop?
November 29th, 2014 8:47am
How do you meet other members of the LGBTQ community in real life?
January 15th, 2015 9:04am
How do I deal with having to hide my girlfriend from my parents? It's wrong, but I'd rather not be disowned by the two people in my life that mean the most to me.
December 6th, 2014 6:40am
How do I not fall for someone that is straight?
December 30th, 2014 7:41pm
Why are the chances of finding someone to love in the LGBT community so slim ?
December 6th, 2014 6:36am
How can I break into the LGBTQ dating scene, as I've recently come out and don't know many other LGBTQ women?
May 10th, 2015 4:30pm
Will I learn to deal with the scrutiny I receive for my orientation?
April 11th, 2015 6:44am
How can I be a great advocate for the trans community as a cisgender individual?
January 19th, 2015 10:55am
How can I explain to others my relationship with XXX person is a QPP (queerplatonic partnership)?
October 3rd, 2015 1:40am
It's not safe for me to Come Out yet. How can I make it easier, emotionally, to be in the Closet?
April 17th, 2015 8:34am
What its like being straight/heterosexual?
April 6th, 2015 4:02pm
Just because I am bisexual doesnt mean I want to be with just anyone, how do I make that clear to my friends that tease me?
April 6th, 2015 4:09pm
How do I stop second guessing my identity?
October 3rd, 2015 1:31am
Is being gay or lesbian or bisexual a sin?
April 11th, 2015 5:09am
How can my asexual friend be with her sexual boyfriend?
May 17th, 2015 6:19am
Why do I always reconsider my sexuality and gender identity?
March 29th, 2015 1:41am
Why are people questioning if being gay was a choice?
May 3rd, 2015 8:57pm
What is the Butterfly Project?
July 26th, 2015 4:20am
Are you open about the fact you self-harm, or do you hide it?
November 20th, 2014 11:14am
What can I do when I feel an urge?
January 3rd, 2015 7:49pm
How can I stop feeling guilty for self-harming?
December 19th, 2014 7:05am
Am I a bad person for self harming?
April 11th, 2015 6:36am
I think I need stitches, but I'm afraid of going to the hospital or calling my doctor. What will happen when I do?
March 7th, 2015 2:23am
How can I cope with the fact that I self harm?
December 18th, 2014 4:00am
How to get rid of self harm scars?
November 20th, 2014 11:23am
Why does my brother call me an attention seeker?
November 21st, 2014 10:01am
When I'm angry, why do I always feel the need to hurt myself?
November 21st, 2014 10:09pm
How do I stop?
November 28th, 2014 1:27am
What can I do instead of self harm?
December 23rd, 2014 5:44am
Why do my scars still itch?
November 28th, 2014 1:31am
Why do some wounds turn purple?
November 28th, 2014 1:32am
Why should I go to a psychologist if he would have to tell my parents that I am hurting myself and I do not want them to know?
November 28th, 2014 1:36am
Why is self-harm considered bad?
April 6th, 2015 3:41pm
How can you stop the urge to cut?
November 28th, 2014 1:39am
How do I deal with friends who self-harm?
December 14th, 2014 4:35am
What is the best way to stop feeling triggered?
April 11th, 2015 5:15am
How to I get my friend to stop self harming without telling on her?
December 19th, 2014 12:23am
How can I talk about/show people my many scars without them freaking out?
April 11th, 2015 6:41am
Is self harm only physical, or can you harm yourself emotionally as well?
April 7th, 2015 7:00am
Someone told me I'm at higher risk for skin cancer because I've self-harmed. Is that true?
April 11th, 2015 6:09am
My daughter told me she self-harms but I don't understand, what does it feel like to do something like this to cope?
April 11th, 2015 6:13am
Does having scars on show make it uncomfortable for people who do not self harm?
October 4th, 2015 7:24am
Can I learn to use other forms of coping to resist the urges of Self Harm?
April 17th, 2015 8:38am
What other psychological factors influence self-harm?
May 3rd, 2015 9:06pm
Why is trichotillomania (hair pulling) not as addressed in the self harm community?
April 6th, 2015 4:14pm
After recovery from self-harm, how can I deal with the scars left on my body?
April 11th, 2015 6:26am
Is it normal to progress from one form of self harm to another ?
March 7th, 2015 2:07am
Is it normal for me to like my scars?
March 7th, 2015 2:11am
Is it OK to show scars in public? Should I be concerned about people commenting or should I be self-confident?
April 11th, 2015 6:18am
If I self-harm in a visible place, does that mean I'm secretly doing it for the attention?
April 11th, 2015 6:45am
What really is so wrong with using self-harm as a coping technique when it works so well?
April 6th, 2015 3:50pm
How can you replace self-harm with another activity?
May 3rd, 2015 9:11pm
When can you consider yourself recovered from self-harming?
April 6th, 2015 3:46pm
will I self-harm forever?
April 6th, 2015 4:18pm
Do the thoughts of self harming ever go away, even if you've officially stopped?
April 6th, 2015 3:54pm
What's the best way to cope with family members who will not accept your sexual orientation?
January 14th, 2015 8:22am
How do I stop procrastinating?
December 25th, 2014 3:33am
How can I stop being insecure in my relationship?
December 19th, 2014 7:53am
What should I do when my boyfriend ignores me?
December 30th, 2014 7:37pm
Best way to get over a break up?
December 19th, 2014 5:58am