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FindingMyTruth89
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My husband became my friend
Relationship Stress / by FindingMyTruth89
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 August 10th, 2019
...See more I recently realized something about myself... physical intimacy is important to me. It wasnt before I got married or even recently after. So I never realized that my spouse wasnt providing those needs and I wasnt actually sexually attracted to him. Now that Ive realized this, I know I need a divorce but its a hard pill to swallow. Weve been married for 5 years, we have a 2 1/2 year old, and we own a home together. I am crushed at the thought of crushing him because hes perfectly happy. Im at a loss. Is this normal? What if Im going through some crazy (early) mid life crisis or something and I end up regretting it? But I dont want to keep sitting around in this love-less marriage, either.
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