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...See more My husband and i have been fighting alot recently. I lied about some things because i didnt want to hurt him and i didnt want to admit they were true. I know i did wrong and i shouldnt of lied to him. Now he doesn't trust me at all and accuses me of lying all the time. I can understand the trust issue part. But i have also learned that he has cheated on me multiple times over the years. But he gets so angry about something he thinks i am lying about and says that is not the issue and that i am throwing his past mistakes in his face. He gets completly angry and starts insulting me and calling me names. He has never been like this before. Now he is obsessed woth knowing everything about the guy i was with before him, which was 17 years ago and before i even knew him. He says that i am holding back what i remember and keeping it my little secret. I was only with one guy before him, i was 15/16 yrs old and completely stupid. While we have beem goung thru it ove come to realize that my ex used me. There was no relationship there, i was just a fuck buddy to this guy who was 23 when i was 15/16. I am havo g trouble remembering all of the details from back then, i was drunk a lot of the times, and my husband says that i am lying and hiding things from him. What do i do? I am trying my best to remember and give him what he wants to know. He says he needs to know to help ease and sooth his mind so i want to help. I want the fighting to stop. What do i do? Anybody have any advice? Btw we have been together for 15 years now, married for 13.

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