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FlowerInDisguise19 |
Listener - Proficient 6

Listener Rating
5.0 star rating

❤ On a break from 7Cups until further notice ❤


Hiya I’m so glad that you’ve found me here on 7CupsOfTea! 

I have had many experiences with life and now I enjoy helping others to get better as I know how it feels when you are lonely and have no one to talk to, that's why you have come to the right place! I am here to listen to you and support you and guide you on what's best for you. I can listen to you if you are going through..bullying, self-harm, relationships (especially long distance), depression, panic attacks, OCD, religious issues and homelessness. I have also first handedly experienced what it's like to go through an illness so if you would like to talk about any issues that you may be experiencing, message me don't be shy and I will gladly listen to you and help you the best I can.

No question is too big. No problem is too small. There's no need for you to be alone. I can be your shoulder to cry on. Just remember that I love you all

Stay strong 

By the way, meet my lovely friend Winnie the Bear 🐼

P.S. My time zone is GMT, London ☆ so keep that in mind when you are messaging me. You can use to convert times!
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To all fellow listeners, I am a part of:

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✓ The Appreciation Committee - Feeling underappreciated? Do you know someone who could use with a bit of love and recognition, message me and we’ll soon be spreading lots of love! :’)

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My lovely listener twins: @iListenIdontJudgeIcare and @Ibiihere (big shout out they're awesome!) 


Some of my favourite quotes:

"Everyone wants to be the sun that lights up your life. But I'd rather be your moon, so I can shine on you during your darkest hour when your sun isn't around."

"A bird sitting on a tree is never afraid of the branch breaking, because it's trust is not on the branch but on it's own wings. Always believe in yourself."

"Happiness can be found even in the darkest of times, when one only remembers to turn on the light."

'Life isn't about waiting for the storm to pass...It's about learning to dance in the rain."

"Every day you should reach out and touch someone. People love a warm hug, or just a friendly pat on the back."

Number of Ratings: 56
Number of Reviews: 19
Listens to Over 18
Languages English
Listener Since Jan 28, 2015
Last Active over 6 months ago
Gender Female
Progress Path Step 621
Cheers 106,726
People Helped 95
Chats 1,088
Group Support Chats 284
Listener Group Chats 509
Forum Posts 726
Forum Upvotes 1,187
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Feedback & Reviews
U r a amazing person
She's amazing!!
Very kind and very understanding, a pleasure to chat with about any problems you may have.
Just amazing, really helped me my giving me the support I needed.
FlowerInDisguise19 is so helpful, professional, caring and on time ! I will definitely be chatting with them again!
Lots of help, actually. Pleasantly surprised here.
I think that Blue was very Helpful, and that she really tries to understand the situation at hand and help. There were times though when it would take some time for her to respond though...
Extremely helpful and very sympathetic
She's so nice! And patient and kind.. She always gives you the time of day and never puts you down or makes you feel worse.. She makes you feel so much better! Thanks alot 💖💖
She's so nice, patient, kind and respectful.. And for that I wanna say thank you ❤️
Helped me with what to do with my relationship, great help, recommended to anyone
Very good listener! :) helped me a lot, thank you
Overall, couldn't have asked for a better listener. Thank you! :)
she is amazing and can really help me with anything!!!
I feel like I connected more towards sweetblueberry19. And for that I feel great! Thanks a bunch for everything I'll totally get ya back online soon!
She/ he it's amazing. It made me feel better. Thank You.
You did great! I appreciate you taking time to help me with my problem!
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Questions Answered
No one cares about me, why does 7 Cups of Tea care?
May 21st, 2015 8:03am
Is it irresponsible for me to have kids because I have depression?
July 23rd, 2015 11:43pm
How can I stop hating and criticizing myself so much?
July 23rd, 2015 11:27pm
How can I distract myself in healthy ways from negative thoughts?
April 11th, 2015 8:12am
How can I stop being so clingy?
July 23rd, 2015 11:17pm
Why do I feel bad about the past?
May 21st, 2015 8:11am
How do you learn to love yourself when you're depressed?
July 23rd, 2015 11:50pm
Why do I feel so alone even though I have people doing their best to be supportive?
May 21st, 2015 8:08am
Is it normal for me to cry nonstop?
July 23rd, 2015 11:34pm
Why do I always hide myself away from people who want to help?
April 11th, 2015 8:02am
Why can't I find the right woman?
July 23rd, 2015 11:09pm
I thought depression meant extreme sadness, so why sometimes do I not feel anything at all?
April 25th, 2015 12:57pm
Is it normal to feel alone when a family member is diagnosed with cancer?
April 25th, 2015 1:21pm
Is it normal for me to scratch and bite myself?
May 23rd, 2015 11:36pm
What do I do when my emotions start to overwhelm me?
April 11th, 2015 8:09am
I don't like my job anymore. Should I quit or continue doing it?
April 25th, 2015 1:15pm
Am I a bad employee if I skip work because of work stress?
April 23rd, 2015 7:32pm
How can I find a job with no previous work experience?
April 11th, 2015 8:17am
How do you avoid drama at work with coworkers when it's constantly there?
April 11th, 2015 8:14am
Why do I feel like I will fail, if I don't know what is going to happen?
May 4th, 2015 6:40pm
What can I do to calm myself down?
April 11th, 2015 8:15am
Can I still reset my life after the things that happened to me?
April 11th, 2015 8:11am
How I stop the negative thoughts?
April 11th, 2015 8:04am
How can I tell my friends or family that I self-harm?
April 11th, 2015 8:22am
What is the best way to deal with a situation when you find yourself triggered?
April 11th, 2015 8:23am
How do I help someone I care about from self-harming?
April 25th, 2015 1:01pm
What is the best way to stop cutting myself?
April 25th, 2015 1:12pm
Is it normal to have sudden mood shifts of from anger, to grief to love again and many other shades of the mood, after a break up, especially after a close dependent relationship?
April 11th, 2015 8:07am
Why did she cheat on me?
April 11th, 2015 8:20am
What's the best way to stop heartbreak?
April 11th, 2015 8:19am
Why do I always say things I don't mean?
May 4th, 2015 6:43pm