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I think it's time for a divorce
Relationship Stress / by Focusedty
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 July 26th, 2017
...See more July'16 I found out my husband had plane tickets to spend his bday weekend w/ another woman in NC. He claimed he canceled the night b4 I confronted him because he felt bad and after a week of him begging I took him back. A few weeks later I found a boarding pass from NC to our state from what should have been a work weekend in April. He said he did plan to visit her but didn't go due to the work thing. Nov'16 I find emails to him from another woman. His father introduced them 5 years ago to help him get a job but they continued to talk after. I told him I wasn't comfortable with their relationship because she was way too helpful. He claimed she was like an Aunt to him. But in these emails she's expressing romantic love. He said he was sorry things crossed the line but I never got physical and agreed to cut contact with her. I took him back. Apr'17 we talk about our marriage and agree to separate due to lack of communication and falling out of love. My grandfather passed the next day. With all the emotions my husband felt compelled to work on our marriage and not leave. May'17 I discover a sex tape with him and his "aunt". He said it was years ago and that he started counseling. After weeks of begging I take him back. June '17 I find that he shared nude pics with someone we went to school with. He said he told her it had to stop. I agreed to work things out but I can't get the images and angry thoughts out of my head.
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