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GlooKal
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My baggage from my ex is affecting my new relationship.
Relationship Stress / by GlooKal
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 May 2nd, 2023
...See more So basically I was with this girl for 10 years, we were common law married called each other wife and hubby and had plans to get married with a ceremony eventually. We had a toxic co dependent relationship, and towards the end of it when I was working two jobs to support us both she made friends with some guy on a game on her phone. Started connecting with him since I wasn't home very often, ended up cheating on me with him over the phone while we were still together and living together. Then decided she wanted to leave me but still have me take care of since she didn't have a job. She destroyed me mentally and emotionally. She still tries to come back into my life ever now and then. But now I'm in a new relationship with a girl that's very different from my ex, she's better in a lot of ways and she shows me love and she shows me she cares. But I'm afraid she might cheat on me too, and no matter what I do I can't get rid of the feeling. And I feel like I might ruin my chance at something good if I can't learn how to trust her. Can anyone help?
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