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GoodThinker7
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He cheated on me...
Relationship Stress / by GoodThinker7
Last post
 June 30th
...See more And we broke up after 3 years of relationship... I'm feeling so bad. One month ago he started dating apps while we were together, not for the first time, but I thought after our conversation it's going to be okay. He found one there and he went to visit her although she lives in another city and very far away. As I said, not for the first time so one year ago honestly I started to check his followers... almost every time it was a girl and he tried to text. Then he said I'm crazy cause I check him, but I wouldn't do it if he wouldn't install these dating apps... I just wanted to trust more cause I love him. In conclusion yesterday I was on a trip with his relatives and suddenly I saw the account of that girl she had to stories with him on a picnic she took a photo of him while he was sleeping... And I can see a red heart under the story... We took a pause one month ago because I knew that something is happening and I didn't want to break up so we both agreed at that time he was already on the dating app where two weeks ago he found this * So yesterday I tried to communicate to him and to this girl and they both texted me very offensive words that I'm a piece of s*ht is it I need a psychologist and very offensive words... Why if she is worse than me? I'm so sorry but I'm actually much prettier I'm smarter and she doesn't do anything it's like just she's on a low level comparing to me... I don't understand how after 3 years together he went... And to someone like that. I was very close to his family into his friends so I told them and now he feels very angry he doesn't want to talk even more also I was blocked before, do you think he might feel ashamed now? I mean his parents and his family said that it's not normal... I just want to know if there is a chance said he might regret about his actions? And also I don't think that he's going to stay with that girl from another city first of all cuz people that go to someone being in relationship normally such things are not for long even if they think so... So I wish you could understand and to text me to talk about it later... Help me please
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I can't,feeling bad,help pls
Relationship Stress / by GoodThinker7
Last post
 May 15th
...See more 3,5 years together and I found him on 3 dating apps! Broke up but I see he doesn't want me to be with others! I love him too! My fault cause I was controlling him but I wouldn't start to do it without a reason! Now I can't even study or sleep normally my hands are trembling 😭 I still hope to get back together but what should I do with these dating apps?
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Stress
Relationship Stress / by GoodThinker7
Last post
 May 12th
...See more He said I'm toxic and left because I was "stalking" him but in reality he was the one who had dating apps after years of relationship... And I still love him and I want to be together but I don't know what to do now 😭 I lost so much time without studying cause of stress
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Need help...
Relationship Stress / by GoodThinker7
Last post
 May 5th
...See more I've been very stressed, I'm a girl and it's affecting my woman health so makes me even more worried... In short it's cause of money problems,my family and one guy that was with me for a few years and I found him on a dating app. I don't eat ... looks like I don't want...got exams soon but barely can stand up... I don't know what to do I need someone if u read me gimme some support please... Mostly it's cause of him ...he did a lot to me, always. I'm close with his family,he told me he loves me recently but then I saw that dating app... although it says "open to chat" but anyway... I just can't I love so much but my health.... I don't know if I should say to him or anyone
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Need help
Depression Support / by GoodThinker7
Last post
 May 6th
...See more I've been very stressed, I'm a girl and it's affecting my woman health so makes me even more worried... In short it's cause of money problems,my family and one guy that was with me for a few years and I found him on a dating app. I don't eat ... looks like I don't want...got exams soon but barely can stand up... I don't know what to do I need someone if u read me gimme some support please...
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My partner doesn't come to see me
Relationship Stress / by GoodThinker7
Last post
 April 13th
...See more and goes to the concerts,cinemas with his friends,his best friend takes his partner and I just spend a second year crying...it was so good before and I used to go out with his company of friends... and now I feel bad...like I was in the family and now they don't really care...I don't know how to explain it to him as he doesn't come for a long time, but he keeps a contact with me...every day I'm stressed and I don't know what to do,I wish I could become a part of them again...
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I can't sleep for one year
Relationship Stress / by GoodThinker7
Last post
 April 11th
...See more Cause I check my partner's following list every time and I'm so tired of it...we haven't seen for a few months and I know it sounds strange but I tried to believe my partner is stressing and so on. But when I see this * doesn't reply but starts following people of different age from different countries like how do u know them and why?! I don't know what to do with it...is there any way to do something with it? I want to sleep not to check this... Cause now I feel I get more stress than my partner. Like he lives his life and I'm here dealing with this
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I need your advice
Relationship Stress / by GoodThinker7
Last post
 March 22nd
...See more I think I got jealous issues idk how to describe it...the situation in my relationship is strange now,we haven't met for so long and I believe he has a difficult time but then he goes to the concert and to the cinema with the best friend. He is my friend too and he has a gf. They followed each other and it makes me angry...I used to go out with these friends and now when they have a gf and a boy I love spends time with them...it makes me jealous and angry...seems I want his attention but I'm also angry when I see his friends are in relationships... Why do I feel this to his friends? And what should I do with it... maybe I just want his attention so that's why I'm so angry at them all
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