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Not sure if I'm demi-sexual or on the asexual spectrum
LGBTQ+ / MOGII Support / by Grace8anon
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 June 23rd, 2021
...See more Hii guys :) I'm just here because I want to understand my sexuality a bit better. So I'm 18, still in highschool, and I think I may be demi-sexual but I also don't know if I qualify. If anybody here knows about the asexual spectrum and can help me find out of I fit there, or if I am a mixture of different identities, please do send me a message🥰🌱 I think I may not be completely allosexual because 1) I'm 18 and have never had a boyfriend 2) I had my first kiss at 17, but I was drunk and did it to get it "over and done with". The boy was someone I knew from age 7, and I am not romantically or sexually attracted to him. I have not kissed anyone since. 3) I don't think I feel sexually attracted to people often. 4) Or I can't tell if I have been sexually attracted to people or not. 5) I have many good friends who are boys, but almost all of them I don't find romantically or sexually attractive. 6) I usually cannot comfortably think of myself having sex with someone I do find attractive now. If i were to test myself, the one person i could imagine, I've hardly met and I've only made up an idea of them more like. Here are the reasons I think maybe I am allosexual, but I am just too picky, too shy, or haven't had enough opportunities (parties etc): 1) I do want to have sex one day, and I am not scared of the idea of having sex if I am comfortable and happy with the person. 2) I can imagine and then like [enjoy?] sexual scenarios not with me personally, but with characters of some story I am in love with, like a fictional couple that took the next step or whatever and it's about the meaningfulness. 3) I can watch movies and be like "that guy is so so hot" just by their looks and mannerisms. But I don't think I meet strangers often enough to be able to think of real life example of reacting to strangers now. If you think you can help me understand, and/or need me to elaborate more clearly on some things, I'll be happy to🦋 thanks :) !!
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