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Graciebrijo
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My fiancé cheated and left me
Relationship Stress / by Graciebrijo
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July 29th, 2018
...See more My fiance cheated on me and left me. This is the second time as a year ago he kissed someone when he was drunk and I forgave him. This time he slept with someone and he decided to do it when he was sober because he was annoyed at me over something small. Hes been so horrible and selfish during this whole thing. He has depression and also a lot of family problems and was abused as a child. He decided to report the abuse and most of his family disowned him. Recently he was told it wasnt going to court because of lack of evidence but he said he was fine about it. He just got a new job, we were getting ready to move country, there was financial pressure with the wedding coming up. I dont know whether to assume this all caused the problems or just to accept that hes an A**hole. He seems to have changed for the worse because this is not the kind loving man I knew. Im completely broken and lonely without him. Im now moving country alone with no job or financial support. Ive lost all my money on the wedding which is non refundable. He says he wants to work on himself and hopefully make his way back to me and I dont know whether to keep hoping for him or to try and move on and forget about a future with him. When it happened i offered to do counselling but he didnt want to. He only cares about himself right now and gets annoyed if i contact him because im hurting and need him. Hes been my best friend for 6 years and now he just doesnt care.
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