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...See more Hi all Ive been with my wife for 20 years and married 8 we have 3 beautiful children. Weve had a lot of relationship problems with her own family using her for there own gain. Money problems etc I suppose it all started about 15 years ago my older brother tried to sleep with my wife on more than one occasion and then we were on a night out and he plied me with drink and then took me back to his house and then took my house keys out my pocket and tried to gain entry into my house where my wife and children were sleeping fortunately my neighbour heard and he left. That was enough for my wife to tell me what he had been up to he was trying to grope my wife and force her legs apart. As you can imagine I was broken by this. It took me years of therapy to try and trust people again and have friends over without thing they have there own agenda pathetic I know. Then last week my wifes friends partner who she has only been with for a year and they now have a newborn baby together. And apparently he has had a battle with alcohol and drugs and that his partner and newborn baby are his saviour. But he keeps texting my wife poetry about how hes overcome his demons and he sends my wife pictures of himself with his newborn baby which I find very strange. I mean who texts another mans wife a picture of him and his newborn baby and his poetry messages I feel are so personal why does he feel the need to share them with someone he barley knows. Is this normal or am I being paranoid

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