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GustavitoElGato
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Pain or freedom?
Relationship Stress / by GustavitoElGato
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 February 12th, 2025
...See more Hi, I have a partner, we have been together since 2022, we're both young and we experiment a lot of new things together, the thing (superficial) is that we start the university, we are in different universities, happened something with some girl (maybe a micro cheating), it causes me a lot of things, I get to the point where I couldn't sleep and I wanted to die, I cried every night, he was feeling guilty, but he never told me about that girls or the messages they send to each other (I never saw the messages, buti saw how he try to hide the evidence that they used to send messages to each other). I become an toxic and insecure girlfriend, I tend to check his phone all the time, I don't justify my actions, but let me tell you, I really thought he was the love of my life, I still with him, because I love him and a part of me, feels like he's actually changing, yesterday I found he usted to give it the "Love it" reaction from *** to her stories, about the period they were talking and like that (that happened a year ago), today I ask him for all the truth, my head was like crazy, I don't know, but today, like everything make sense, he told me they used to have really fun time each other, he felt attracted to her personality, and he want to give some signals, I don't justify his actions, but I still feel in pain, it's weird to me understand that, I'm a little bit in shock, but at the same time something in me finally think actually that's true, just a simple phase, and maybe you think that's toxic, our relationship, but we show Improvements in a lot areas. Sorry for the long text, I maybe just needed to get out mi thought. PD: Sorry if I have bad spelling, my first language is Spanish and I still learning. Kisses.
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