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...See more So I am 27 and I have this amazing boyfriend who is 37. We've been dating almost 3 years. He has kids that live with his ex wife 15 hours away and he is not willing to fight for custody. Due to the fact he will be stuck with all the court fees and he would have to drive 15 hours to go to court and the kids are already settled in school there and more reasons I can't think of right now. Basically we only get to see them for 3 months out of the year during sumemr break. So I want one kid that's my blood and he refuses to have more kids telling me if I want a kid so bad to leave and find someone else who will give me a kid because he won't. He says he is getting too old to start over with a new baby and he has a vasectomy. He doesnt want to get a reversal because it hurt so bad the first time he doesn't want to do that again. Well this man dances with me in the kitchen and helps me clean without me asking. He gives me forehead kisses and knows me better then I do myself. I can write a book about everything this man does right. This man is a dream come true the only issue is I won't be able to raise a kid of my own blood with him. So my question is do I leave this once in a life time love and may never find someone like him or just give up on the idea of having a baby of my own? If I do leave him I will have to move 18 hours away to my closest relatives until i can get an apartment by myself and my 2 big dogs who nobody will take. And all of that in hopes I find someone even remotely as amazing as this man and I may even end up a single mother after all is said and done. I don't know what to do and I can't afford counseling and I don't know if i am making the right decision to stay with him.

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