Harry53 |
Listener - Paragon

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Hello! I'm glad you've found me on "7 Cups of Tea." I'm a trained active listener and I like to support people struggling with relationship issues, domestic violence, anxiety, depression, grief over the loss of a loved-one, and managing emotions. During the past thirty five years I have been employed in various capacities in the social services field. I've overcome a lot in life and would like to help by listening to you. If I'm online, then please feel free to start a chat. If I'm offline, send me a message so that we can set up a time to connect. I'm glad you are here!

Number of Ratings: 941
Number of Reviews: 275
Listens to Teens & Over 18
Languages English
Listener Since Jun 11, 2014
Last Active in last week
Gender Male
Progress Path Step 3,141
Cheers 306,219
People Helped 1,903
Chats 4,448
Group Support Chats 0
Listener Group Chats 3
Forum Posts 326
Forum Upvotes 432
Feedback & Reviews
He was a big support, I will talk with him again
very helpful and responsive
Very understanding and listens carefully.
Whenever I need to talk about things, he has always been there to listen and help me figure out what I really am thinking and pushes me towards making my own solutiosn and goals. Thank you!
He is very good at helping you understand where the pain comes from and how to handle it
He was very helpful
Clear and concise. Good stuff.
Harry's amazing at getting people to open up about their true feelings. There was some deep stuff that I didn't even know that I thought about that came up in conversation with him.
Gave me some great advice on how to start overcoming the challenges I'm facing
Nice to talk to and responded fast
I really enjoyed talking with Harry53!! He always reassured me with helpful tips and facts. I really appreciate him!
hes so helpful and he really helped me feel better
He’s helping with a lot
10/10 would recommend.
I’m currently in a chat with Harry and he is easy to understand, very inquisitive, and quick to reply.
So counseling, thanks Harry for hearing me out
helped me feel better
He listened and helped me decide a few things, great listener and advice!
he is a good listener and a good person to talk to!:)
Very practical and good listener. Recommend highly
He’s very understanding and talks through what you are explaining to get a better idea. He is calming with his words and has a lot of empathy.
He's been great to talk with so far!
a very helpful and prompt listener
Good at active-listening techniques in general, like asking questions
good chat personal bias turned me away nothing else quite kind
He’s a great listener
Amazing listener.
Real cool calming dude, thanks harry :)
Very helpful! Engaged in a normal conversation and helped me calm down whilst i was in panic mode
Good good 💟 🌼🌹🍀🍀
He truly helped. Amazing listener. Highly suggest
He really understands a lot about situations you're going through. Best chatter ever
Talking to him made me feel a little better already
He’s very nice! ;)
Very patient and asked the right questions.
Loved it! Awesome chat!
He was absolutely caring!
he can keep the conversation going while helping alot
Harry53 was very helpful
He is really helping me get things off my chest that needed to be said
I could tell when talking to Harry that he has experience in this field. He was very professional and helpful, he listened to what I had to say and gently counteracted my negative ideas with more positive ones. He was very helpful and I enjoyed talking to him.
Helped a lot.
Speaking with Harry was very helpful. He's extremely insightful and I'm so glad to have spoken with him.
Very good
Best listener I have had so far. Listens to your situation, and really helps you navigate through it.
Harry53 this a best Listeners he help me with one thing and it change my life he know what to do he helpful and really kind
Responded quickly not like many other listeners. Very empathetic and understanding
Very helpful and efficent
Harry was kind and considerate. They helped me through a difficult time.
This person took their time to listen to me. This person is very helpful.
Very good.
Thank you for being such an awesome listener! I hope you have a great day. Keep on helping people :)
Great listener
It was easy to tell him what was going on.
Very helpful, good advice.
Very good and helpful
At times you were blunt with me. You said it exactly as it was. I can't tell if that was exactly what I needed to hear, or something that will make me unable to sleep for awhile. Perhaps both. Either way, thank you.
It was great having someone to talk to
Great listener and cares
Really helped me
This was a helpful conversation for me that will hopefully help me move on
I am enjoying me talk with Harry..
Harry was a great help with a big decision causing a lot of struggle for me. Keep up the fantastic work!
He was helpful an direct!
He knows how to guide you down the more productive roads of conversation.
Very good.
Very helpful
He really helped me and talked through my options with me.
the best of the best
He was helpful
Great guy, really helped and listened and replied almost instantly.
Even when presented with a kind of difficult situation, he didn't make anything weird and he helped direct me to resources for further help
Was very helpful
Nice talking to
He was super helpful
He was really helpful and was nice to be able to talk to about it
Very helpful and loving
You helped me so much when I needed someone to listen. I will definitely recommend you. Thank you so much for taking time out of your day to help me :)
I appreciate that Harry doesn't push you to feel better or finds weird, unlikely solutions, he just acknowledges how you feel and lets you talk freely. It's really the best thing to do.
I want him again
Totally cool! Just rambled through a lot of stuff that's been clogging my brain together for awhile, which helped a lot.
Harry was a very empathetic listener. He tried his best but we were unable to help my issue very much due to it complexity and long term effects on me.
Thank you Harry great man
He is listening
He was amazing, I'd recommend him to anybody. He'd asked questions related to your problems, patiently waited for your response and answered back almost immediately! I honestly thought he was a real therapist a few times with how on task, helpful, and professional he was.
Thank you harry :)
Harry is really awesome, compassionate, and level headed. Really what I needed in my time of trouble.
very helpful
He's very nice
Very good listener!
He was very helpful and a great listener.
very nice and helpful
he was very good at listening and very helpful, very nice as well
Really helps a lot talking to him.

stayed late and help me work through a complex problem and face an ugly realty that needs facing
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Questions Answered
Are there different types of depression?
November 6th, 2014 5:13pm
Should I quit my job or take leave (FMLA) because I'm having a difficult time trying to function normally.
September 10th, 2014 11:37pm
Why do I feel depressed even though I feel like my life has not been giving me much to be depressed about?
February 27th, 2015 1:32am
How to tell someone you're depressed without saying it?
November 18th, 2017 12:27am
How to forgive yourself for cheating or lying?
November 18th, 2017 12:28am
How do I prevent negative thinking?
November 18th, 2017 12:34am
What's the best and politest way to say "no" to something?
December 13th, 2014 1:50am
Should I date one of my co-workers? I really like them.
December 13th, 2014 4:52pm
What's the best way to stop feeling incompetent ?
January 31st, 2015 7:27am
What should I do if I can't get a job?
August 1st, 2018 5:34am
What's the best way to get over rejection from schools?
December 13th, 2014 1:53am
What does it mean when you get nervous for no reason?
August 1st, 2018 5:17am
A family member thinks I am lying about where I am going but I'm not, what should I do?
November 18th, 2017 12:21am
I feel extremely sick whenever I leave my house, what can I do?
November 18th, 2017 12:25am
What do I do if my teen daughter wants on birth control?
November 28th, 2014 3:53pm
What do I do if I have sexual feelings for my children?
December 21st, 2014 4:37pm
How do I get my son to get a job?
December 18th, 2014 6:15pm
How long does it take to get over someone?
October 22nd, 2014 2:01pm
How do you deal with the temptation to contact your ex?
June 1st, 2017 1:38pm
Why do I feel like I'm cheating on him still, even though we broke up months ago?
November 18th, 2017 12:30am
Why is it so hard to talk to an ex-boyfriend or ex-girlfriend?
November 18th, 2017 12:17am
I'm dating someone who has cheated in the past. What should I do?
August 1st, 2018 5:10am
Whenever I go home, my parents treat me like a teenager again - how can I stop this from happening?
June 1st, 2017 1:27pm
My mother always acts like we're in competition. What do I do?
November 6th, 2014 5:17pm
My grandparent has dementia. How do I deal with this? What can I expect?
November 19th, 2014 3:01pm
How do I deal with the pressure my parents put on me to be who they want vs. who I am?
January 14th, 2015 6:49pm