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Harry53 |
Listener - Paragon 8

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Hello! I'm glad you've found me on "7 Cups."  I'm a trained active listener and I like to support people struggling with relationship issues, domestic violence, anxiety, depression, grief over the loss of a loved-one, and managing emotions. During the past thirty five years I have been employed in various capacities in the social services field. I've overcome a lot in life and would like to help by listening to you. If I'm online, then please feel free to start a chat. If I'm offline, send me a message so that we can set up a time to connect. I'm glad you are here!

Number of Ratings: 1291
Number of Reviews: 344
Listens to Teens & Over 18
Languages English
Listener Since Jun 11, 2014
Last Active in last week
Gender Male
Progress Path Step 3,369
Cheers 339,207
People Helped 2,186
Chats 4,912
Group Support Chats 0
Listener Group Chats 3
Forum Posts 330
Forum Upvotes 444
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Feedback & Reviews
really nice person, listened to me and made me feel a bit more confident
He is kind and listens to what you have to say
help me feel better
amazing work! great time with harry
Got strait to the point and helped me a lot!
Really helpful and patient. I felt good being able to talk with somebody.
Very Nice. Non-judgmental. Easy to talk to.
Good listener. Really listened to me.
Can keep a conversation going.
Thank you for listening. I appreciate it.
he listens to me well:)
Harry is a good listener, and I felt comfortable talking to him in our chat :)
understanding. helpul
Listened very well and really kind
He was awesome. Answered all my questions and was great at helping me
it went okay, he replies fast and helpful
He is a great listener and helped me a lot Thanks a lot sir
it was okk. harry53 is a good lstener
very nice man really nice and comforting
He's really comforting and understanding
He was very helpful and made me feel good
very thoughtful and enlightening; harry was quite firm in his words and it helped me have assurance and confidence. truly wonderful conversation.
He makes me realize a lot of stuff as I’m talking to him about it and it makes me feel better about the situation
Amazing listening
He likes to listen and gives good feedback, very nice and understanding
He listened and I reflected on what I needed to do.
Other: nononononno
Was nice to talk to someone and feel like a human being
Very good listener. Listened and validated my feelings. Thanks so much Harry.
Helped me so much. Very understanding
He listened and gave some good ideas to help
Very good experience. Made me feel better.
He was very helpful, answered all of my questions.
It was really good. Its weird considering this is my first listener, but I'm really enjoying it, and I think this app will really help me
Harry was really nice and tried his best to understand and listen to me, made me feel really good talking to him. THANKS HARRY!
Fantastic listener. Professional and uses really valid logic that helped me to see the right of things. Definitely Rec
He was kind and patient.
Harry is very kind and understanding. I felt better after talking with him. :)
Talking to him really helped me.I appreciate that conversation a lot
very nice. fast replies :)
Very good listener.
Really helpful listener
Thank you for listening.
It did help talking to somone
He made me feel really comfortable to share my feelings!
Very sweet and thoughtful. Knew how to communicate
Harry is a great listener. What little time we chatted it made me feel listened to.
Harry was a good listener. Attentive
He was a very nice person
I liked it HES nice
They were very helpful and understanding. They carefully listened to my situation. I recommend him
This was a very helpful chat, thank you.
he seems to be a good listener.
Great listener
Good listener! Thank you for your help.
great person awesome chat very helpful
He is very calm and sensible. He's a great person to talk to when you want to better articulate your thoughts and feelings
A great listener, I felt listened and helpled me open up. Thanks for that awesome chat!
Good listener ... and wise
Harry! Thank you so much. I’m in a very low place in my life right now. I felt heard and understood by you, and you cannot imagine how much that means to me. You are truly an amazing person, thanks for the help, I really appreciate it.
seems like a pro!
Nice good listener
Loved It! Awesome Chat!
Super helpful - felt I could be honest. Thank you :)
I like how he approached my problem. It made me feel much better to talk it out!
They are mature, attentive and try their best to understand the situation we are in. I highly appreciate their time and efforts.
He responds very fast. Asks questions that really help you open your eyes. Love the quickness.
Is understanding of what your are going through and allows you to really think about how you are feeling
Nice. Simple. Good listener
He was a big support, I will talk with him again
very helpful and responsive
Very understanding and listens carefully.
Whenever I need to talk about things, he has always been there to listen and help me figure out what I really am thinking and pushes me towards making my own solutiosn and goals. Thank you!
He is very good at helping you understand where the pain comes from and how to handle it
He was very helpful
Clear and concise. Good stuff.
Harry's amazing at getting people to open up about their true feelings. There was some deep stuff that I didn't even know that I thought about that came up in conversation with him.
Gave me some great advice on how to start overcoming the challenges I'm facing
Nice to talk to and responded fast
I really enjoyed talking with Harry53!! He always reassured me with helpful tips and facts. I really appreciate him!
hes so helpful and he really helped me feel better
He’s helping with a lot
10/10 would recommend.
I’m currently in a chat with Harry and he is easy to understand, very inquisitive, and quick to reply.
So counseling, thanks Harry for hearing me out
helped me feel better
He listened and helped me decide a few things, great listener and advice!
he is a good listener and a good person to talk to!:)
Very practical and good listener. Recommend highly
He’s very understanding and talks through what you are explaining to get a better idea. He is calming with his words and has a lot of empathy.
He's been great to talk with so far!
a very helpful and prompt listener
Good at active-listening techniques in general, like asking questions
good chat personal bias turned me away nothing else quite kind
He’s a great listener
Amazing listener.
Real cool calming dude, thanks harry :)
Very helpful! Engaged in a normal conversation and helped me calm down whilst i was in panic mode
Good good 💟 🌼🌹🍀🍀
He truly helped. Amazing listener. Highly suggest
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Questions Answered
Are there different types of depression?
November 6th, 2014 5:13pm
Should I quit my job or take leave (FMLA) because I'm having a difficult time trying to function normally.
September 10th, 2014 11:37pm
Why do I feel depressed even though I feel like my life has not been giving me much to be depressed about?
February 27th, 2015 1:32am
How to tell someone you're depressed without saying it?
November 18th, 2017 12:27am
How to forgive yourself for cheating or lying?
November 18th, 2017 12:28am
How do I prevent negative thinking?
November 18th, 2017 12:34am
What's the best and politest way to say "no" to something?
December 13th, 2014 1:50am
Should I date one of my co-workers? I really like them.
December 13th, 2014 4:52pm
What's the best way to stop feeling incompetent ?
January 31st, 2015 7:27am
What should I do if I can't get a job?
August 1st, 2018 5:34am
What's the best way to get over rejection from schools?
December 13th, 2014 1:53am
What does it mean when you get nervous for no reason?
August 1st, 2018 5:17am
A family member thinks I am lying about where I am going but I'm not, what should I do?
November 18th, 2017 12:21am
I feel extremely sick whenever I leave my house, what can I do?
November 18th, 2017 12:25am
What do I do if my teen daughter wants on birth control?
November 28th, 2014 3:53pm
What do I do if I have sexual feelings for my children?
December 21st, 2014 4:37pm
How do I get my son to get a job?
December 18th, 2014 6:15pm
How long does it take to get over someone?
October 22nd, 2014 2:01pm
How do you deal with the temptation to contact your ex?
June 1st, 2017 1:38pm
Why do I feel like I'm cheating on him still, even though we broke up months ago?
November 18th, 2017 12:30am
Why is it so hard to talk to an ex-boyfriend or ex-girlfriend?
November 18th, 2017 12:17am
I'm dating someone who has cheated in the past. What should I do?
August 1st, 2018 5:10am
Whenever I go home, my parents treat me like a teenager again - how can I stop this from happening?
June 1st, 2017 1:27pm
My mother always acts like we're in competition. What do I do?
November 6th, 2014 5:17pm
My grandparent has dementia. How do I deal with this? What can I expect?
November 19th, 2014 3:01pm
How do I deal with the pressure my parents put on me to be who they want vs. who I am?
January 14th, 2015 6:49pm