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Hart22
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I need advice on how to explore my sexuality. I’m very confused
LGBTQ+ / MOGII Support / by Hart22
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 May 15th, 2023
...See more I’ve just recently started questioning my sexuality about a month ago. I’ve been thinking about it a lot and at this point in time I’m bi-curious. The term “bi” makes me feel really validated but I feel like I’m lying to myself which is something I constantly do and I can’t trust myself anymore. By the way I am 14 years old and my pronouns are she/her. As some context I’ve been in the theater community my whole life so I would hang out with a lot of people in the LGBTQIA+ community and lots of people would joke about how “fruity” they were during rehearsals. I’m very awkward so normally I would just listen to the conversations but one day I joined in and everyone just laughed at the idea of me being fruity. And my sister had told me that I was “painfully straight.” And honestly that felt horrible but I never knew why. About a month ago, I don’t remember how but the idea of kissing a girl popped into my head and it didn’t really feel weird to me. Honestly it made me smile a little bit. And the idea of dating or even marrying a woman in the future was something that made me excited in the ways I’ve felt excited about dating or possibly marrying a man. But the thing is I’ve never “had a crush” on a girl before and lately I can’t stop thinking that I might be bi. Before I thought I was ace because I don’t have any sexual attraction to men but I did want to date them. But then I realized that I never considered women. And now I feel like I don’t know anything about myself. Does anyone have any advice on things I can do to help me get some more clarity?
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