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Hauntedwindows
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Reward Systems
Depression Support / by Hauntedwindows
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 October 13th, 2022
...See more Does anyone have any tips or ideas for setting up a system for rewarding myself when I get things done? Often just doing the thing is not reward in and of itself for me so I want to set up something where I have a special prize of sorts of getting things done. However, I've tired to brainstorm ideas for this and come up dry. And help is appreciated!
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Confusion, Stress, and Validity.
LGBTQ+ / MOGII Support / by Hauntedwindows
Last post
 October 13th, 2022
...See more Hello 7cups. I've been struggling with my gender identity off and off for a long time now and I thought instead of wallowing in fears and confusion I would reach out to a group that might be able to help. I am AFAB but rarely feel happy when seen as such. Mostly I am indifferent, but never happy. What does give me euphoria is being seen as or presenting as male or non-binary. On a few days to a week out of every month or two I have dysphoria. I have things to help alleviate this but when considering surgery (specifically top) I am far too terrified of it to ever go through with it. However, indifference is the default. I suspect that this is due to depression which I have chronically, but I can't be sure. I struggle with feeling not (gender) enough. No matter what I try to identify with/as I find myself feeling as if I'm stealing the label from people who "deserve it" more. I find myself wishing that someone would just tell me what my gender is and I'll trust and go with it, but I know that's now how it works. However, any help or advice would be appreciated.
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