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Heartbrokens0ul
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Virginity and breakups
Relationship Stress / by Heartbrokens0ul
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 February 5th, 2020
...See more Both of us were long distance and when we both started we kinda already knew we would end but both of us just wanted to be there for each other and just love each other as long as we could but eventually she found someone and broke up with me with the worst news possible she said she gave her virginity to a guy she just met for 2 weeks and instantly got in a relationship with him and now I'm just left here broken gripping with the fact that someone else slept with her. We were planning to share this intimacy when we met but I guess I just wasn't enough I'm still holding on to the "I love you" the "I will never leave you" and the "I'm so lucky to have you". Those words somehow could never ever leave my mind. I swore to myself to never fall in to deep for this girl and for some reason I still did initially when we faded and when she told me we were going to end I was still OK with it but once she told me she lost her virginity to someone else I felt so betrayed and hurt I shouldn't be this hurt but for some reason I am. I loved her too much and now I have to pay the price. Am I going to be okay? I just need someone to talk too. I need someone to tell me it's fine. Why lose it to someone else rather than me why couldn't she just wait a little longer we shared so much love
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