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Helpmesister
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I love him and I don't
Relationship Stress / by Helpmesister
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 July 2nd, 2020
...See more I'm in an 8 year relationship that started when we were in highschool. I find myself looking for something else. I couldn't even hangout with my friends without feeling guilty not hanging out with him instead. All my free times are for him. It's him I think about all the time while he does what is convenient for him. Now I broke up with him told him all that and now he is begging me to stay that he will change. I accepted it cause I care and still feel for him but I still cant keep the thoughts of me being single and free but I'm scared I'll regret it but the thought is so loud everytime!!
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I broke up with my boyfriend of 8 years.
Relationship Stress / by Helpmesister
Last post
 August 13th, 2020
...See more I've been with him since I was 17 and now I am 24. We are of the same age. This is the 3rd time I broke up with him. Overall in our relationship, we didn't grow. We don't trust each other. We are both jealous. Even a change on chat or missing emoji will be an issue. I put up with it cause I'm sure it's him I want forever but now that he is inlove with me again, but still no trust and always jealous, I got tired. I was just over it. And I find myself thinking about experiencing new things. But now I feel like falling apart, I loved him so much and I think I still do now so its hard to see him so hurt and I wish I still feel 100% for him but I am not that girl anymore and I hate myself for that. I have thoughts of getting him back. I am crazy. Help me. I cannot be single cos he is like my bestfriend too and I tell him everything and we do everything together but I am just tired and I want new things but I dont wanna hurt him and I feel like I am gonna regret this forever. I am so torn. HELP ME
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