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PathStep 43 Compassion hearts41 Forum posts11 Forum upvotes11 Current upvotes11 Age GroupAdult Last activeDecember, 2016 Member sinceFebruary 12, 2016
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I don't know what to do
Trauma Support / by Heyitsirum
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 May 1st, 2016
...See more I haven't don't anything properly yet, but whenever I stay at my dads house my cousins usually stay there as well as their mum (my aunty) lives there also (she's disabled). Anyways I just turned 18 and my eldest cousin is 22 ... For years he has been flirty and touchy but recently he has started to jump into bed with me when I'm trying to sleep, or grab me and lie us down together and lock the door. He attempts to touch me and make me touch him but I can never stop him! I can't scream because I don't want anyone to find out... I haven't done anything extreme with him because I always find a way out, but I'm scared he will become aggressive as I am now 18 ... He is family ... I do not want this ... I can't tell anyone because he's family and we are all very close .. What do I do!
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1 step forward, 10 steps back
Depression Support / by Heyitsirum
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 February 25th, 2016
...See more Help: how do you cope with getting rejected from something you've worked super hard for? Everytime I'm finally happy something has to come and push me back down x10 more harder, I'm starting to become more and more isolated, I don't want to talk to anyone, my friends family. I don't want to seek advice from doctors but would rather do it behind a closed screen. I'm an optimistic person, well I once was, now with everything's that happening; family problems, dealing with witnessing a close family death, exams, university application stress, rejection and bullying ... I was never one to be in that position, I was always the bubbly girl who knew everyone and I guess was "popular" but now, I feel like everyone is talking about me, I feel like every starres and I can't cope with anything anymore, I've shut everything out and everytime I try to push myself up and do some charity work, or a new project I just get laughed at and pushed down... I don't know if I have depression as I've never spoken to anyone about this apart from you guys ... How do I cope with this feeling of rejection and failure... Sorry if this sounds desperate ... But I am, I seriously am starting to give up and I don't want to be that person, and I don't want to bring a bad name upon my family
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