Hi, I'm a 30 something independent woman with a good job, good relationships and generally happy life. I have overcome drug and alcohol problems and am 5 years clean and sober. I have horses, love to swim, read, play cards, go to the beach, ride my motorcycle. I have a lot of varied experiences and interests. I'm happy to help anyone who needs to talk, no matter what it's about. Everything from family problems, addiction issues, sexuality, gender, relationships, personal growth, anxiety and depression, work/student lstress, abuse, anger management, self esteem. If you need someone to talk to, I'm here. I am honest, respectful and straightforward. I believe the first step to freedom is taking responsibility for our situations and looking out for number 1 is most important in almost every situation.