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HoneyP82
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Marriage struggles lies
Relationship Stress / by HoneyP82
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January 8th, 2021
...See more Hello, please bare with me as this is a long story and I dont know if what I feel is right or I am over reacting. I am at a point where I feel like I have to leave my husband not because I want to but because I can't keep being hurt or feeling this way. My husband lies, alot, about everything. I have caught him messaging women before, sending photos of himself riding and when I asked about them he said its nothing, I felt like it was more like his trying to boost his ego. He again messaged another girl trying to meet up with her for a ride and deleted the messages so I wouldnt find out. even after talking to him about this and saying I wouldn't be comfortable if he was to meet with women for a solo ride. I approached him about this and it turned into me being crazy and he doesn't have to tell me because I have nothing to worry about, on this same day he had already lied about leaving work early and going on a ride with whoever to a cafe.... 2 weeks after this he goes away for the weekend with one of his friends to end up messaging me saying his campsites closed and would I mind if he goes and stays at some girls hotel room. I had again tried talking to him about how this made me feel for him to call me crazy again and not speak for 3 weeks, not one word, didn't help me with Christmas for the kids, didn't help with food for Christmas absolutely nothing. I still looked after him, cooked his dinner, done his clothes, even though he didn't help once, not with anything.
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