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Hopesanddreams5
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Ethical dilemma
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 May 11th, 2024
...See more I have been talking to a guy who is quite handsome and tall. We have been chatting and talking over calls since a few weeks now. I like him but he is at a very struggling phase right now and so am I. I am unsure about my career and I have many responsibilities at home. I am planning on moving countries next year and it is like 90% set already and I know he won't be able to move ever. The guy is from a village and his family is not as progressive and modern as mine. Also he is struggling with finances and has no career planning. I have faced financial problems since my childhood and am finally in a place where I can fulfill needs and some desires of me and my family. I am just not seeing myself dating someone who I might have to add to my financial responsibilities just yet. To be honest, I even feel like I want to date and marry a stable person now. I don't need the riches but I don't want struggles as well. He has asked me out on a date. I don't want to lead him on so I have asked him to wait for a month till we atleast understand each other a bit. Am I a superficial person or a *** to think like that?
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