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Hurtpeoplecansuceed546
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Are True Love Signs Real?
Relationship Stress / by Hurtpeoplecansuceed546
Last post
 July 4th, 2020
...See more Hi, everyone! So, I dated this guy for about two weeks. And I know it sounds crazy, but I was actually in love with him. Do you know that feeling that you have found your soulmate? I felt that. Signs have even pointed me to that. But, then next thing you know he broke up with me because he said "he wasn't ready for a relationship" Obviously that wasn't true because he started dating so many girls after me. And he got angry at me for loving him so much because he hates himself. And that hurts me because he is the most beautiful person I have ever met. It may seem like I still love him, but honestly, he can date who he wants. It hurts me that he can forget about me so easily. He still talks to me even though he has girlfriends. Now, we aren't talking anymore because I said that I was in a mental health facility and that I shouldn't have lived. I have felt this before and have even tried to and he knows this. He hasn't answered my text message and he probably is angry at me. How could he do this? Do you think that he would answer me? I should probably forget it. He really hurt me. And honestly, I think I deserve better. But, I wish I could forget him. Do you think it's meant to be? How do you find someone for you? Do you wait or do you just pursue it? I want to be in a relationship so bad... I wish I could find someone...Anyway, I am sorry if this was too long for you. Any help would be appreciated, love what you guys are doing here❤
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Am I Being Selfish?
Anxiety Support / by Hurtpeoplecansuceed546
Last post
 August 12th, 2019
...See more I have wanted a child ever since I was a kid. Someone to make beautiful and someone to love. I told my friend this and she said no. She said that having a child at 17-25 will ruin me. So I promised her at 26. And then she called me selfish. Selfish for abandoning God, selfish for not realizing that I am loved, selfish for being human. This was coming from a girl who called God "stupid" and my beliefs "ridiculous" and I never once got upset or angry. I got judged for wanting my everything; my love, my heart, my child. What she didn't realize was the pain she caused me and how miserable I felt. All this because I want people to be happy when I am not. So I apologized; to girl who called me selfish, to the girl who said she was tired of hearing me, to the girl who made me want to give up my dream. So the real question is, do YOU think I was being selfish? I would like to hear your opinions :)
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Do They Really Love Me?
Anxiety Support / by Hurtpeoplecansuceed546
Last post
 December 1st, 2022
...See more Ok, so I have anxiety attacks. Like bad ones. Every time, I hold the door for a person and they don't say thank you, I have one. Every time my friend responds 5 minutes after, I have one. It's consuming me. And it hurts. Because of that I believe that people don't love me even though they tell me that they do. I had a boyfriend who I loved, and every single day he would say, "I love you" And I would say, "No you don't " And I didn't believe him or anyone else when they said I was wanted. I start to feel faint, I start crying, I start to lose my breathing, and then I freak out. We broke up, but we remained close friends until he told my friend that he was going to give me space so I could figure myself out. I wish that it doesn't hurt as much as it does. Sometimes I wish that I never met him, then maybe I wouldn't have the pressure to be beautiful when I'm not.
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