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IHeartEggsBenedict
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Is what other people think of you "None of your business"
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 November 19th, 2024
...See more I messaged with a person (K) that I lived with and we broke up over her 'trust issues' a long time ago. I heard that her son was having some troubles and I wondered if there was a way I could help. She asked me if I wanted to meet up and after discussing this with my wife I said I would. After that she ghosted me. I am pretty certain that in K's mind, my agreeing to coffee translated into that I would be unfaithful to my wife with her. (Not a chance) This was really bothering me and I thought about actively seeking to meet with her to hopefully set the record straight. I spoke to a listener here and said that it really bothered me that K, who always thought I couldn't be trusted, now thought for sure that I couldn't be trusted. The listener told me "What she thinks of you is none of your business", and that has stuck in my mind ever since. So I ask here, do you think that what someone thinks of you is none of your business?
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