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Is this ok
Relationship Stress / by Ichhdjdndsjdnd
Last post
 December 17th, 2024
...See more My bf forgot out first anniversary. I reminded him understanding that he was busy the entire day and wish him all he replied to it u said it was on 19th. When clearly it has been on 15th I have never said 19th.When I showed him the calendar and all he said ohh is it Happy Anniversary with a smiley emoji. That was all So i was hurt and angry he said was why didn't you reminded me when we met on 13th and when I told him if it mastered to him he would have remember so he said he remembered it was on 19th i replied ok to that message and he has left me on read
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What should I do
Relationship Stress / by Ichhdjdndsjdnd
Last post
 October 27th, 2024
...See more My bf & I dated for 10 months we work together. He broke up with me but still acts as a friend. After break up I didn't asked him for lunch next day and he made a fuss out of it saying this is my real face and I am like everyone else toxic and all. He's going on a family trip tomorrow should I wish him happy journey or something because if I don't he's gonna come back and be like everyone else texted except you
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Help me understand
Relationship Stress / by Ichhdjdndsjdnd
Last post
 October 22nd, 2024
...See more I was dating this person initially he said he was serious and all so I said yes to him, he was the one that approach me saying he likes me. Now in the 10 months he never really cared for me, was emotionally detached didn't even gave me 5 mins of his day took me to only 1 date, for my birthday all he did was wish me that too late. Initially he was so good and i fell in love with him. I gave him chance thinking something must be going on whenever I tried to communicate he would not ans never shared anything. I tried and tried ,he gave me a statement he will not marry me he will marry the girl his father choose I couldn't understand cause I had asked him before about the same multiple times and he had said his family listens to him. And then last month I gave up I could see he wasn't serious or anything. I told him I can't and he said okay we were friends before let's stay friends so i said him I can't stay friends with you. He replied that how can you do this to me that you won't stay friends with me you have been a really great friend for me. Then went how to give him one month and he will try his 100% then decide. Yesterday I told him about how one of my friends 8 year boyfriend was cheating on her for almost a year and how she is hurt. His reply was she should have not trusted him. According to him it's her fault that she trusted her bf. 
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I feel hurt
General Support / by Ichhdjdndsjdnd
Last post
 September 9th, 2024
...See more I'm feeling confused and hurt about my boyfriend’s behavior. Despite being serious from the start, he is emotionally detached and indifferent towards me. He recently mentioned that we're just dating and that he will marry someone his family chooses, citing caste differences as a reason. I had previously asked him if this was his plan, and he assured me that his family would listen to him. His sudden shift in attitude, along with his lack of emotional investment and inability to make time for me, is really disheartening.Like for him he can't give 5 minutes of his day to me. honestly no one could be that practica l I think he never had any feelings for me i was just a timepass I know I should end this but i really loved him & I think I was just a joke for him.
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