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Let's take off together to the world of infinity

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Thread on Humanizing Empathy 🌱
General Support / by Incredibleshoes35
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November 5th, 2023
...See more In a rapidly evolving digital age, where screens often replace face-to-face interactions, how do we maintain the essence of genuine human connection? This thread delves into the profound concept of empathy, distinguishing it from sympathy, exploring its neurological roots, and emphasizing its significance in today's world 1/ Introduction to Empathy Empathy is the ability to understand and share the feelings of another. It's more than just a cognitive recognition; it's an emotional resonance. In a world increasingly driven by technology and virtual interactions, humanizing empathy is more crucial than ever. 2/ Empathy vs. Sympathy While sympathy is feeling compassion for someone's situation, empathy dives deeper. It's about putting yourself in their shoes, feeling what they feel. Sympathy might say, "I'm sorry for your loss," while empathy whispers, "I'm with you in this pain." 3/ The Neuroscience Behind Empathy Our brains have 'mirror neurons' that help us feel what others feel. When we see someone in pain or joy, these neurons activate, allowing us to vicariously experience those emotions. This is the biological foundation of our empathic abilities. 4/ Empathy in the Digital Age With the rise of social media and virtual interactions, there's a risk of diluting genuine human connection. Emojis and likes can sometimes replace deep conversations. It's essential to remember that behind every screen is a human with emotions, dreams, and struggles. 5/ Barriers to Empathy Factors like prejudice, bias, and past traumas can hinder our ability to empathize. Recognizing and addressing these barriers is crucial for genuine understanding and connection. 6/ Empathy as a Skill Like any skill, empathy can be cultivated and improved. Active listening, open-mindedness, and practicing mindfulness are ways to enhance our empathic abilities. 7/ The Power of Storytelling Stories have a unique ability to foster empathy. Whether it's a book, movie, or personal anecdote, narratives allow us to live vicariously, broadening our understanding of diverse experiences and perspectives. 8/ Empathy in Action Empathy isn't just a passive feeling; it should drive us to action. Whether it's supporting a friend, volunteering, or just being there for someone, empathy should motivate us to make a positive impact. 9/ The Ripple Effect When we show empathy, it creates a ripple effect. Those who receive empathy are more likely to show it to others, creating a more compassionate and understanding world. 10/ Conclusion In an era where division and detachment can seem prevalent, humanizing empathy is our bridge to understanding and unity. Let's strive to see the human behind every story, every tweet, and every interaction. #EmpathyMatters #HumanConnection 🌍❤️
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Newbie Hub / by Incredibleshoes35
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December 7th, 2022
...See more Hey Folks, Welcome to the most comfortable platform that you'll ever find. We hope that you feel comfortable and get all the help you need to prosper. Welcome Aboard, Shoe
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Very compassionate and caring
Very helpful and supportive listener. Was a great pleasure to talk to. I was able to better understand my anxiety and come to terms with it.
A great listener that pays attention to what you are saying and figures out what you need at that moment. Thank you for your kind words!
Very accurate in pinning down the pain point. Incredibly connecting, engaging and kind. Strongly recommended!
Really kind hearted listener. Was able to allow me to see a different side of my problem and made me feel better. Thank you 😊 🙏
Incredibleshoes35 is an amazing listener. This is the best first contact i could have had. I started the chat and ended the chat as completely two different people. When the chat began i was drowning in a sea of my own sorrow and my fingertips were barely on the life raft. Incredibleshoes really did get in the water with me and pull me to safety. Which is the only really good analogy i could come up with. Leaving the chat i have a sense of where i can begin to start in finding my resolutions and thats what i didnt realize i needed the most. i didnt need answers as much as i wanted them, but he was able to give me a sense of direction of where i can start and that feels like something tangible that i can work with. Even on days where im not feeling strong, he handed me a building block..and i wholeheartedly appreciate that. Thank you again Incredibleshoes35
You won't believe the change you'll feel after having the conversation with him even it is the first time. It was such a relief. He just not only listens but supports, respects and make you believe in yourself again. He can make you see the blurry vision so clearly and not by faking it but showing you your true reflection in the mirror. I'm glad I got to meet an amazing person as a listener. Thanks a lot. God bless you and give your more strength to achieve your goals. Keep shining, live healthy and awesome.
Incredibleshoes it s very patient and can handle small details when your problems and stories are complex. she provides insight in a very friendly way and she is very caring. Glad i came on tonight as i would have gone to bed in a worse off mood if i didn't speak to 'shoes' :)
was very kind
Thank you
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