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Invulnerablestate
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Relationship Stress / by Invulnerablestate
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August 20th, 2018
...See more I am talking to this guy who I am friends with and whom we shared our mutual feelings together early this year. He is in the military and is currently deployed. Recently, he hasnt been messaging me (due to the fact that he always tell me that he will be missing in action from me for awhile so that I will miss him and stuff... you know how some guys are). Anyway, I kind of said hello and asked how he was and we started to text each other again like before and suddenly he asked me if we could give each other some space because I am a distraction (with a hahahaha in his text). Tbh, I was shocked because we are not even together. We are just friends and he told me that? Anyway, I said sure. And he was shocked saying why does it seem like that is easy for me. I basically told him that I am easy to talk to (if he doesnt want then sure. Because basically it shows that I dont give a care about him. PS: the reason why I am showing him this because his ego is just so big. He thinks every girl is onto him and such). I asked him why? Do you want me to get angry at you?. He replied with a yes but with a joke and a hahahaha in the text. Anyway, I asked him joke or for real? And he said for now, its for real and told me that he will text me after deployment. And we basically said our byes then and there. He said bye for now and I said bye for who knows how long. And now I decided to not reply or text him EVER. What are your thoughts about this?
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Relationship Stress / by Invulnerablestate
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January 21st, 2018
...See more He broke up with me 2 years ago. I didnt know why and he wasnt clear about it. Though, he told me that he didnt love me anymore and he wanted to break up with me for a long time. Suddenly, he messaged me today in Facebook (were not friends in FB anymore by the way). He was just asking how I was. I dont know if I should reply to him or not. No, I do not want to get back with him ever but I just wanted to tell that I am actually happy now more than ever. But then again, whats the point of that? What should I do?
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