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ItsGayShyGirl
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LGBTQ+ / MOGII Support / by ItsGayShyGirl
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 January 12th, 2022
...See more Why do most lesbians fall in love so fast, why can’t we take it slow? I fell so deeply in love with her and we were on our eighth month together. So many red flags I had seen, but ignored them because I was so in love. Within the first two months, she cheated socially and lied. The cheating was not with one woman, but with multiple women. Stupidly in love 😕🤦🏽‍♀️. We got through that and next thing you know her ex is coming into the picture. The same ex she left before meeting me, the same ex she talked so bad about, the same ex that’s popping up at her house and job. I thought we deaded that situation. Things were going great, normal arguments here n there. We are discussing meeting up for the first time for the holidays. Then right before the holidays she does something else and I have a recording. I let her know I have the recording and she saying she scared I am going to leave. I reassure her I’m not leaving but want to talk about it. She saying I don’t realize how much she loves me. I know she loves me a lot, but she just makes poor decisions. She even agreed to that. Then I don’t hear from her for two days and she starts acting weird on social media. I missed her call and about 2 hours pass by and next thing you know I see her with her ex from before. The ex is messaging me on social media and blocks me to unblock me. The ex says everything the girl do has to go through her now. Now my holidays are ruined and I just go into a depression. I question how did this happen, did her ex do something to her because she’s into hoodoo(magic), why was I so foolish, was she really gone change after the recording?! So I feel like I was taking things slow and this is what happened when I did.
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