Relationship Advice
Why do most lesbians fall in love so fast, why can’t we take it slow? I fell so deeply in love with her and we were on our eighth month together. So many red flags I had seen, but ignored them because I was so in love. Within the first two months, she cheated socially and lied. The cheating was not with one woman, but with multiple women. Stupidly in love 😕🤦🏽♀️. We got through that and next thing you know her ex is coming into the picture. The same ex she left before meeting me, the same ex she talked so bad about, the same ex that’s popping up at her house and job. I thought we deaded that situation. Things were going great, normal arguments here n there. We are discussing meeting up for the first time for the holidays. Then right before the holidays she does something else and I have a recording. I let her know I have the recording and she saying she scared I am going to leave. I reassure her I’m not leaving but want to talk about it. She saying I don’t realize how much she loves me. I know she loves me a lot, but she just makes poor decisions. She even agreed to that. Then I don’t hear from her for two days and she starts acting weird on social media. I missed her call and about 2 hours pass by and next thing you know I see her with her ex from before. The ex is messaging me on social media and blocks me to unblock me. The ex says everything the girl do has to go through her now. Now my holidays are ruined and I just go into a depression. I question how did this happen, did her ex do something to her because she’s into hoodoo(magic), why was I so foolish, was she really gone change after the recording?! So I feel like I was taking things slow and this is what happened when I did.
@ItsGayShyGirl hi there. your situation sounds really awful, and i am really sorry that your partner was being so disloyal towards you. it's something nobody deserves to go through. what do you think you should do now?
So she contacted me today and said her ex had all her socials and everything that was being posted on social media was old videos and pictures. She said that she should have found other ways to contact me… I sort of started talking to other people, now she is asking me what I want to do. One of the other people really likes me but is far away and I’m kind of interested but shes not my norma type I would go for. The second person is my type but I’m not sure if she only wants me sexually. She always compliments my looks and likes the freak in me. We have talked about a little bit of other things, but not a lot of things. I am enjoying the vibes. Anyways, my ‘ex’ gf said she is willing to do whatever it takes to fix this. She hates hearing that she broke my heart and I went into a depression. She wants me come visit me and talk more. Like I really do love this girl, but she really did hurt me. I don’t know whether to continue moving on and doing me with other people or just let her back in hoping she changes fr like I think she is. I just don’t want to be a fool again. And she wishes I would of never moved on to talk to other people.
