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...See more Hi there person! I'm looking for help, someone is ruining me. Every day, I used to have a "good morning" and a "good night" from my 'special guy'. He always insisted on spending time with me, always worried when I was feeling down, always made sure I was okay. Until now... In a matter of weeks he has drifted away from me impressively, he treats me painfully different. He has become someone very important to me; he's my motivation to be a better version of myself. And now he's leaving, bit by bit, because he found someone else. Since technically we were never a couple and he takes few things serious I can't go ahead and ask "what's the matter?" or so, and I can't walk away from him because we're going to college together. I feel myself dying inside, nobody has ever cared for me in that way, and it hurts like hell that he doesn't anymore. I don't want to do anything, my illnesses are getting worse and I can't stop having nightmares. It sucks because a few moths ago I was finally overcoming depression, but now I feel like I'm spiraling towards it again, and my self-esteem is suffering too, I mean, the only explanation for him replacing me is my lack of... it could be anything. Please, please, please someone give me some advice, I don't want to be depressed again, I don't want to have my life ruined by someone...

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