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Did she just lead me on?
Relationship Stress / by J55
Last post
 February 28th, 2017
...See more so, my story is kind of long. I met this girl let's just call her "M", 2 years ago. Every year we have Japanese visitors in the Philippines. I had a girlfriend that time and she has a boyfriend. We never really talk that much except when I help her get another passport when she lost her passport here. 3 weeks ago she came back with the group. She came to me and ask me when will I go to Japan, I told her that I think it will be on October, she told me that she's really excited to see me there. After that night, I realized that I like her. So I told another japanese friend (let's call him "S") whom I consider as brother that I like her. After awhile I wanted to tell "M" that I like her but I can't, because I'm not sure how I'm feeling. Before they leave the country, at the airport she gave me a letter. She told me that it's for me and thanking me for my kindness and she really wants to see me in Japan. After they came home to Japan, we started communicating. We even video chat for hours, she didn't want to hang up the phone first. On valentine's day, she made a yellow origami rose and telling me that it's for me. She wanted to see the sunset when she was here but couldn't see it, so I told her that if she really wants it, I could only show to her by video call. and we did. We even made a promise that we'll see it again here when she comes back. but then after a week of non stop communicating, it stopped. I asked her what's wrong, or is she ignoring me and all I can get was sorry. I tried to call her and she got mad. the day after, my friend "S" told me that he likes "M" too. and he told me that he don't want to lie to me so he told me everything and he said he wanted to confess to "M". it took me 2 days to reply because I was confused and surprised. I told him that I respect his feelings and hope that it doesn't change anything. After I reply, he told me that they are now a couple. I didn't know what to do. I am still overwhelmed. What should I do? What happened? I thought we really have something special. Am I too slow not to tell her? Should I ask the girl if It's true? Thank you for listening
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