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...See more This is about an ex boyfriend of mine from 2010. I've never told anyone everything that happened and I need to let it out. He was an abusive bastard. We dated for a year and it was the worst of my life. We would fight every day. He controlled my money and isolated me from everyone in addition to beating me. I contemplated killing myself for awhile but I figured he'd find a way ruin that for me too. The worst happened a week before I left him for good. It was the weekend and after I got home he offered me a drink. Things seemed fine and I thought it was gonna be a good night. Then I blacked out. When I woke up I was tied to the bed and he was pacing and yelling. He called me names and accused me of cheating. Told me he'd kill me if I ever left. I spent 2 days tied to that bed. He raped me, beat me, tortured me. He burned me with cigarettes and cut me down there. He is an absolute monster. After the 2 days all he had to say about it was that he hoped I'd 'learned my lesson'. And it still took me a week afterwards to leave for good. He raped me again and I just snapped. I never reported what he did but I was able to get a restraining order and I haven't seen him since. I'm so mad at myself for not putting him in jail. I should have. I can't help but think of how many more me's there are now because I couldn't bring myself to tell or show the cops what he did. I wish I could forget because I don't think I can forgive

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