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Jenn0317
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Newbie Hub / by Jenn0317
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 December 29th, 2018
...See more Hi all, I'm Jenn. Going through a difficult separation from my husband and looking for outside advice. Thank you all for being here!
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Relationship Stress / by Jenn0317
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 December 26th, 2018
...See more My husband decided 2 weeks ago that he wanted a separation. We've been having troubles for a few months and things just got worse. What heightens my nerves is that there has been "virtual" infidelity (exchanging explicit pics and videos with other women online) on his part on more than one occasion in the past. The most recent being July of this year. I found pics and videos saved on his old laptop that he had given me when he got a new one. These were saved a year prior in May 2017 while we were engaged, but I found them in July of this year. I decided to leave and stay with my mom for about a week and gain some clarity and decide how to proceed. About 2 weeks after I came back, I found out that while I was gone, he repeated that same behavior that I had left for. There have been situations of lying, porn and talking to other girls throughout our relationship. There's also been steroid abuse that has been hidden from me and I've found out, on 3 occasions over 5 years we've been together. I've never really been given enough time to trust again before something else happens. Now he wants to separate but work on things to stay together but while living apart. Since ive been gone (2 wks) however, theres been no effort on his part. I've only seen him twice, that's bc I went there, he goes out, has been drinking a lot, not really appearing to care at all but says this is killing him. I barely hear from him. I just have a bad feeling something isn't right. Help!
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