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...See more I get a message from a mutual friend of mine and my husband of 19 years. She says what's going on with you and your hubby why does he have so many single women all over his Facebook page? I don't follow my husband so I really wasn't paying attention. But now I'm curious so I look at his page. And sure enough there are a lot of single women in our area with absolutely no mutual friends. And I'm not exaggerating 150 to 200 women. I asked my husband and he says oh it's just innocent I should friend them myself. I shouldn't have listened to him. I friended about 20 of them half of that accepted and half of that leaving 5 women sent me the messages that they shared with my husband. You know I've been cheated on before and I always was so curious what was said. I wish I did not know. They weren't just flirting they we're very sexual messages with pics & videos. I was even part of their chats described as the disabled roommate. My husband sees absolutely nothing wrong with this. I've never been the jealous type I have always been open to having friends of the opposite sex. But I feel this was not a friendship. He said he sought those women out because he was attracted to them. I am so hurt humiliated and mortified. My heart feels broken I feel like less of a woman. I want to be sexy I want to be desired. It does make me feel jealous that he can talk to other women like that but not me. Is it over or worth fighting for. Has anyone else dealt with this kind of issue? Please if you have you haven't even advice for me?

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