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Listener - Scholar 5

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''Every saint has a PAST and every sinner has a FUTURE
If you are feeling broken, just know that I have been there before and it is much harder being there alone. I am here for you always.
The roles that I take part in include;

1. Safety Patrol and safety
"Safety is important in a big social community because not all of us are here for the right reasons. Cordially feel free, both listeners and members, to report any activity that threatens the safety of our family."
2. Peer support
"Dear listeners,
allow me to be that shoulder that you can lean on when you are feeling low, worn-out and discouraged after a difficult chat." 

3. Active listener to all the members out there

There are those problems that we cannot share with our loved ones. This is because of the fear that they may judge you 😏 or worse laugh at you 😂. You can always be free with me. I am a very keen listener who does not judge.👂 I have faced a lot of problems and sharing them has given me the ENERGY to overcome some of them. You can tell me anything. I believe that a problem shared is a problem half solved.

''No matter the pain we endure, it must come a time when we must pick ourselves up and continue with our journey.
SO
YOU CAN GO ON BEING LONELY AND 
MISSING WHAT YOU
HAD
,

OR
YOU CAN MOVE ON
TO SOMETHING

NEW 
AND 

WONDERFUL


MY FAVOURITE MOVIE LINES THAT HAVE BECOME MY GUIDING PRINCIPLES

1.FROZEN (2013)
"O
nly an act of Love can thaw a Frozen heart."
Anna: No, I know we can figure this out together--
Elsa: (desperate) How? What power do you have to stop this winter? To stop me?
(Anna doesn't have the answer. Kristoff sees spiky ice shadows creeping down the walls. Puts a protective arm around Anna.)
Kristoff: Anna, I think we should go.
Anna: (close to tears) No. I'm not leaving without you, Elsa.
.....
Using all of her remaining strength, as Hans brings his sword down, Anna throws herself in front of Elsa.
Anna: No!
(In that instant, Anna freezes to solid ice. The sword hits her instead of Elsa. The sword shatters completely. The force of it sends Hans flying back and knocks him out.
Elsa: Anna!
(Elsa rushes to Anna and touches her sister's frozen face.)  
Elsa (Cont'd): Oh, Anna...no...no, please no.
(Olaf walks up and sees Anna, frozen.)
Olaf: (confused, sad) Anna?
(Elsa hugs Anna and cries. Kristoff watches in shocked despair. Sven steps up to his side. Citizens and dignitaries on the castle walls bow their heads. All of Arendelle is joined in somber silence. But then, Anna warms. She begins to thaw. Olaf looks up and gasps. Kristoff and Sven notice, light up. Anna bends her arm and embraces Elsa. Elsa: Wha-? Anna?
(Anna opens her eyes. She smiles at Elsa, relieved.) 
Anna: Oh, Elsa. They embrace.  
Elsa: ...You sacrificed yourself for me?
Anna: (weak) ...I love you.

"Only an act of Love can thaw a Frozen heart."

2. INSIDE OUT (2015)
"W
hen everything is going all wrong, it is probably wise to count your blessings."
Joy: Look, I get it. You guys have concerns. But we've been through worse! Tell you what: let's make a list of all the things Riley should be HAPPY about!
Anger: Fine. Let's see... this house stinks, our room stinks...
Disgust: Pizza is weird here...
Sadness: Our friends are back home...
Fear: And all of our stuff is in the missing van!
Joy: Oh c'mon, it could be worse...
Disgust: Yeah, Joy. We could be lying on the dirty floor. In a bag.
Joy: Okay, I admit it, we had a rough start. But think of all the good things that...

"When everything is going all wrong, it is probably wise to count your blessings."

3. TROLLS (2016)
"Pessimistic 
people live
 miserable lives."

Branch: You don't know anything, Poppy. And I can't wait to see the look on your face when you realize the world isn't all cupcakes and rainbows. 'Cause it isn't. Bad things happen, and there's nothing you can do about it.
Poppy: Hey, I know it's not all cupcakes and rainbows, but I'd rather go through life thinking that it mostly is instead of being like YOU. You don't sing, you don't dance...so gray all the time! What happened to you--
"
Pessimistic 
people live
 miserable lives."


4. UGLY DOLLS (2019)

"Love and compassion 
triumphs over perfection."

At the institute of perfection, the ugly dolls had to compete with Lou, the perfect, handsome doll. He was physically perfect in every way but very rude and arrogant at heart. The ugly dolls were not at all physically perfect but when faced with a dilemma, they chose to love and show compassion than to finish the race. They won by that because "Love and Compassion are a doll's true purpose."
"Love and compassion 
triumphs over perfection."
Number of Ratings: 36
Number of Reviews: 31
Listens to Over 18
Languages English, Swahili
Listener Since Sep 23, 2018
Last Active in last month
Gender Female
Progress Path Step 721
Cheers 46,080
People Helped 178
Chats 710
Group Support Chats 26
Listener Group Chats 123
Forum Posts 270
Forum Upvotes 244
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Feedback & Reviews
He is very nice. Seems empathic.
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Awesome listener
A very good listener. Always have the right words to say. I feel comfortable sharing with JoyHappyNess
Really helped me & listens to what I have to say
I have talked to her again. We reconnected. She helped me solve my problems again. She is a gem. I would recommend her over and over again if I had to.
good listener, asks good questions and is friendly and caring. Thank you
JoyHappyNess was a great listener
Great listener!
Appreciated that I could just talk without expectation.
One of the best listeners I’ve ever had
I feel really helped. The listener listened, not judging nor typing too much that I felt like I was the one listening to her. She listened expertly and professionally. She also empathised with my situation. I could feel like she really knew me and understood what I was going through. She is a fantastic listener indeed. By the way, she also left me some helpful guides that I want to go through.
Really empathetic
Thanks for listening
Best listener I've talked to. She's very sweet, friendly and caring and you will feel better after talking to her. I really recommend you to request her
Best listener. Very thoughtful, caring, and compassionate.
Best listener I've met here, absolutely recommend! Nice, active, caring, the best experience i got on this site.
Good listener and helped me ease out a bit.
the review helped me calm down immensely and allowed me to vent for over an hour. in addition to adding light commentary on their own experiences with my issue, they helped guide me in finding a solution myself. thank you so much again!
Great chat and open helpful listening
Listened to me patiently, was empathetic, the best listener...
It was nice to talk with him/her.
Very patient and compassionate. Thank you very much
She was the best! Helpful and kind to all!
Very patient and articulate
She was attentive and understanding which is what i needed. Just like she knew me and what i was going through. I was glad i spoke with her. I felt connected with someone who cared.
She helped me through such an awkward time and took time to get to know me and the situation. She is very smart and caring!
A keen listener and caring person
Truly amazing and caring person has the beautiful heart of gold
very kind and supportive
Very helpful and kind
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